Thanks for the amazing job and advice that you have on your blog. I’m certain that I speak for the Foxhole, we love you and the best is yet to come.
Since being in the A (Atlanta for those who don’t know), I have had my share of hood wolves, pretty boy hybrids, and confused jackals.
I’m now feenin’ (not in love) with a moderately known model/attentisto who is always on Instagram and Snapchat. We are in the same age range (26-30) but his immaturity and use of social media is annoying. He looks like a younger version of a foxhole favorite of Oshea Russell but he is annoying because I know he is hoeing around with vixens and snow bunnies in a small college town.
Even when I discussed the nature and potential growth of our relationship, he said he prefers text than calls, he does not call or text me during the day or evening and have to follow him on Snapchat to know what is going on.
The time that we have known each other is about a month and always give new relationships a couple of months to flush out the residual relationships (wolves, foxes, vixens, and snow bunnies).
Since he has just finished school, he tells me he wants to move to Atlanta but I think he is a hobosexual (Someone who couch surfs and pretends like they love you and let you suck and fuck you occasionally ). I sense that from him but he also has a criminal record, constantly with vixens saying that they are friends and to build his brand, and I don’t think he has a job.
Jamari: Do I wait it out or move on to someone who will appreciate me and fuck me like crazy? There are a ton of IG wolves especially here in the South and this wolf/hybrid is pushing 30 so you think he would be more chill or less attentisto.
I don’t want to be his come up with my money and connection ( Like Mama Pope said on the season finale of Scandal…We build these black men up so they can go to basic bitches)
I’m really at a crossroads of being single or just fucking with no strings attached with wolves because I don’t want the pain.
I have been listening to the remix of Khalid’s Location and I think about him as related to that (Damn!)
Need your help!
thank you for the compliment reader!
let’s get into it,
sometimes we know the answer,
but we don’t want to admit it.
the fear of looking “stupid” is real in these forests.
we need a friend to give us the real.
the truth can hurt,
but it’s often times needed.
i remember when i was in the midst of storm with work wolf.
i made a ton of excuses to justify why i wanted him in my life.
it got to the point that i blamed myself for things,
or questioned who i was,
even though he was to blame as well.
i can say that he almost made me crazy.
i’m almost embarrassed to think about what i put up with.
i cringe when i was “okay” with being disrespected.
all because i wanted this wolf.
this one wolf who i thought was the world,
when i actuality,
i was the one who needed to be fought for.
Do you really need the answer to this question?
it’s pretty obvious.
this attentionisto is a loser at life and how he treats you.
he is at the bottom of the barrel when it comes to attentionistos.
there are some with at least better game than his.
he already has you at his beck and call.
you are reduced to getting on snapchat to see what he is doing.
i’m almost certain he isn’t attracted to you the way you are him.
attentionistos simply feed off attention from any source.
those in his real life
a barbell in the gym
whatever the mirror is saying back to them
it is a lose-lose situation if you aren’t strong enough for him.
it takes a certain skill to have them wrapped around your finger.
it has to start off that way.
you’ll be writing an email to a question you already know the answer to.
don’t be desperate.
don’t become a hoe either.
every time foxes gets hurt,
we want to go blaze a trail of revenge fuckin’.
our foxtails end up rebelling against us for it later on. i can’t tell you what to do,
but that attentionisto would and should be cancelled.
on lighter news:
HOBOSEXUAL (n): someone who couch surfs and pretends like they love you; let you suck and fuck you occasionally
that will be added to the foxtionary.
that is brilliant.
i hope this helped in some way tho.
the foxhole may have something to say as well!
you spoke so bad about him in the foxmail,
but you still want him in your life.
why is this?