there has been a lot of discussion within the foxhole lately.
it has been about relationships or the life in general.
the thing i love about the foxhole is how intelligently we debate.
i’ve been thinking about something that i’ve wanted an opinion on.
so everyone in the life talks about:
“you shouldn’t be following heterosexual norms”
“there should be no roles as far as dating”
“wolf? top? hybrid? what?”
but then my thing is…
how can that even be said when most are addressing each other as:
“HE IS A FAGGOT”
“THOSE ARE TWO LESBIANS”
“SHE (IN REGARDS TO A HE) IS A GIRL”
it’s okay to be bitches,
but it’s not okay to want to be a fox or “bottom”?
90% of “us” are constantly addressing each other as vixens,
or disrespecting each other as a “faggot”,
but the moment someone straight does the same thing…
it puzzles me that when a snow fox aka a twink likes to get fucked,
especially by bbc,
then it it is always okay.
my tails only likes the same thing and i’m offensive.
a wolf says he is a strict TOP,
and he never gets any flack for it.
he becomes the golden pipe of the life.
i say i am happy and proud to be a fox,
aka a bottom,
and i have committed the biggest offense in the world.
Why is this?
what is a “heterosexual norms” anyway?
most straight wolves are out here living like gay ones.
straight wolves are doing the same shit gays are doing.
i don’t see how they can judge us.
most of them drop their dicks in damn near anything nowadays.
being in a relationship for the most part is still the minority.
so maybe it’s “lesbian” norms?
they tend to jump into relationships and role play.
that not restricted to a certain community.
my thing is when we stop addressing each other as girls,
“yes bitch” and “gimme the tea honey”,
then we can talk about what role the foxhole and i assume.
the point of being gay is you are in love with the same sex.
whether you want to fuck or you want to settle down,
it still all leads to taking the company with the same private parts.
well that is my definition.
even if someone chooses to live this “heterosexual norm”,
it’s called a choice.
there is not one definition that fits every single member of every single group.
everyone is free to live and do what they feel.
it’s not a bad thing choosing to be in a “role”.
it’s also not ground breaking if you choose to be “no labels”.
so i’m lost and maybe i’m just ignorant.
it’s very “bully in the playground” when we do this to others.
it’s the same shit the straights do us when they tell us how to live.
whatever you choose to do,
i keep defining myself as who i am.
i like to be dominated and be submissive.
i am “living my truth” as they say.
as long as i keep doing that,
i will find someone who fits into what i’m looking for.
same goes for each and every one of you.
when you die,
you will go into the ground how you came into this world.
Why not live what works for you?
there are more important things going on in your life,
like your money and your future goals,
than your sexual role.
s’all i’m saying.
lowkey: i love when they say:
“well you’re single so it’s not working for you…”
“well everyone has had you and you’re still alone as well…”