everyone wants to be on reality tv until your huzzband gets in a scandal.
then it’s “don’t talk about my huzzband!!!” as the new storyline.
drew sidora’s huzzband,
ralph pittman,
has been under scrutiny for his alleged gay lifestyle.

i know,
that sounds weird,
but lemme explain.
a stylist claimed ralph was gay which kicked off the rumors.
( x see here )
it was ralph’s answer in this recent interview tho…

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the american dream.
i’ve been taught that it’s coming from nothing to something.
it was a term that immigrants coming to this country strive for.
that could be the legal or illegal route of collecting your W.
now that social media forces us to show our highlight reels,
everyone is trying to prove their worth on this public stage.
the american dream does look different for many people.
folks with no talent are applauded more than those who work hard.
a poor lost soul can buy a 6 million crib off earnings from onlyfans.
i was watching a new trailer for jlo yesterday called “halftime“:

one would say she has accomplished a version of the american dream…

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i feel like if you live under a rock,
you wouldn’t know brandy and ray j are siblings.
jack harlow,
whose 24 and a rapper,
didn’t know this when they quizzed him on hot97 the other day…

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the irony of this shirt.
i need folks to convince me that black lives matter org isn’t a scam.
every couple of months,
some shit comes out that makes me doubt the organization.
it was the ( x 6 million house ) debacle and now this…

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“HI!
I’M STEVEN AND I’M GAY!
YUP!
I’M GAY AND I NEED RESPECT BECAUSE I’M GAY!”

…but steven has no respect for anyone else which is interesting.
this is what drives me crazy with some folks.
they will introduce themselves with what they identify themselves as,
but they refuse to introduce us to who they are behind all of that.
i’m a black gay man and when i meet anyone:

“Hey!
My name is Jamari,
nice to meet you.”

that’s it.
my sexuality isn’t the defining factor as a whole.

I cannot deal with identity politics.

the new press secretary,
karine jean-pierre,
did it with her briefing yesterday.
she said…

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i didn’t watch the ’22 billboard music awards last night.
award shows don’t really hit like they use to.
half the time,
the “stars” are a bunch of people from tiktok.
mary j blige was awarded the icon award last night.
in her speech,
she thanked a management company named tristar:

pic.twitter.com/o8s22iNraY

— Nicholas Hautman (@nickhautman) May 16, 2022

tristar is connected to britney spears and her conservatorship…

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