the foxhole fav that i feel empathy for

chadoy leon.
a foxhole fav who was a tumblr fav years ago.
a few years ago,
he lost his brother in a very tragic way.
ive noticed something about chadoy that a foxholer picked up on too…

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group therapy broke me

sometimes,
we learn quickly that there are others in worst positions than us.
our problems are molehills compared to the mountains of many others.
i asked my therapist to try out group therapy last week.
i was very excited about taking my therapy journey to the next step,
but it ended up draining me for a few days

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don’t say black males need therapy because you’ll get fired for it?

^this vixen who goes by @unusuallybree,
who happens to be a therapist,
paid the price for being vocal.

she stated that black males need to go to therapy.
this is what she said on tiktok:

allegedly,
many black males weren’t happy with what she said.
she even got written about ( x here ).
it ended up with her getting fired:

and she is crying in a new video because the blowback has been heavy…

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what’s the weirdest thing you’ve been told not to do because it’s “gay” ?

that hand has been used to describe me more often than not.
that picture always unlocks a trigger.
i saw a thread on reddit titled:

What’s the weirdest thing you’ve been told not to do because it’s “Gay” ?

i know this topic all to well.
many of us were tortured by this growing up.
minding our business,
drinking our koolaid snaps,
and someone telling us something we are doing is “gay”.
i can name 2 that stick out in my head…

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their bad is bigger than my bad so… my bad?

when we are going through it,
everyone else looks shiny and new.
you’re home; they’re out
you’re broke, they’re buying versace
you’re single; they’re riding the d train to countless orgasms
usually when this is happening,
we are in an emotional desert and our minds are playing tricks on us.
every single time that i look at others and feel sudden insecurities,
like i’m missing out or my life really sucks compared to,
they end up telling me how

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he wasn’t interested in smashin’ me and now i think i’m ugly

i am not the sex app kind of fox.
i came to that conclusion a long time go.
many of us aren’t and thats okay.
i have bagged some sexy ass wolves irl by the vibes give off.

I’m giving eye contact
I’m touching an arm or shoulder
I’m showing hella interest that I’d be interested in that dick
I look good, dress, and smell good
I’m transiting all my sexual energy to whoever I’m into

gay males.
dl males.
curious males.
“would only be gay for you” males.
i feel like i try too hard when i’m on an app vs not paying attention irl.
a foxholer sent me a video of someone looking for a hookup,
but getting turned down in real time and caught on camera…

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