after years of being in no contact,
getting into other relationships,
and 1/2 having new mouths to feed,
it seems like ashanti and nelly are back together in 2023.
^this is them at the gc black ball.

 

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the gp is split down the middle with opinions.

Some were hoping they’d get back together.
Others think she is crazy, especially with how he treated her.

…but can people change enough for that reconnect?
who we were in our teens,
we aren’t in our 20s,
and who we were in our 30s is not who we are in…
well,
you get the picture.

i’ve been thinking a lot about getting back with those from your past.
this can even be about friendships,
estranged family members,
and returning to jobs we left many moons ago.
we all know that facebook is where the past tends to find us again but…

Continue reading “ashanti and nelly make “spin the block” look good” →

i don’t know if i think jack harlow is cute or not.
i do like some of his songs,
mostly his features,
but he is polarizing in looks to me.
some days i think he is cute and others i’m “eh“.
he isn’t like nfl baller wolf,
travis kelce,
on that “take me down” energy.

jack is a “class clown/puppy dog” cute.
folks are lusting after him over his appearance on twitter on “dave”…

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a foxholer sent me an email:

“This dude never learns.”

after everything andrew gillum has been through,
you’d think he’d walk the straight (no pun intended) and narrow to a comeback.
it seems like he might be exactly where he needed to be.
according to this report,
he is on trial in federal court because allegedly…

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i feel sorry for all the female rappers,
those still in the game and not,
who’ve had/have to work their asses off to get their crowns.
the ones who had to dodge rape and sexual assault by jackals bts.
the ones that were victims and haven’t yet told their stories.
when in 2023,
you can have one hit song and be crowned “the people’s princess“…

Continue reading “are we really giving ice spice a crown for just showing up?” →

i said this year i was gonna do more reading.
i want to read more stories,
especially scary shit.
i think i’m pretty done with self-help books tbh.
i posted ^that picture during my IG stories a few weeks ago and…

“You have to read that book!
I read it during the pandemic and it changed my life!” – A Foxholer.

heard.
the book is called “all about love (new visions)” by bell hooks.
after a 2 week hold at the digital library,
i finally got it.
as i was reading the chapter on why men lie,
and how it usually started with many of our childhoods,
i thought of something that i wanted to run by the foxhole.
so read me out…

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elon musk’s free speech on twitter might come with allowing porn.
is porn considered free speech?
twitter is the only platform where porn can pop up on your timeline.
kanye west,
before his suspension and ( x defending balenciaga ),
he tweeted that he wants porn to be removed from twitter.
his reasoning…

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