There’s something I really appreciate about white folks who actually get it.

you know,
as the “privileged” race,
it’s a breath of fresh air when they use their voices for good.
sadly,
so many of them either lack compassion or common sense,
running wild with narratives that serve no one but themselves.
so when i got sent an IG reel from white vixen about the mass shooting in georgia,
i had to brace myself but…

I couldn’t help but wonder…
Are we all just stuck in a never-ending hamster wheel of sexual stagnation?

sexually stagnant.
it’s something many of us deal with,
whether we admit it or not.
instead of seeing other males as potential friends,
or even partners,
many of us treat them like our next conquest.
many of us could get with someone with this bawdy,
who is perfect for us…

They say the past has a funny way of circling back.

well,
this is the kind of circling back i’m into!
i recently found myself on the receiving end of a very sexy blast from the past,
courtesy of one condoms!
picture this:
a big package,
filled to the brim with condoms and stickers…

Have you ever wondered if you’re really “good enough,”
or is that other black gay males aren’t good enough for you?

i love seeing conversations like ^this.
it reminds me i’m not alone and other black gay males feel the same.
it’s this lingering question of…

“Am I good enough to date or settle down with?”

or…

…he ended up blocking your Finsta on IG.

yikes.
a Foxholer slid into my DMs today with this spicy dilemma,
and it’s been simmering on my mind ever since.
first things first…

I had to wonder:
Have you ever just had to curse God out real stink?
Ugh.

yesterday,
i woke up feeling on top of the forest,
with a perfectly curated plan for my week.
by evening,
life threw a curve ball straight to my gut.
naturally,
i did what any rational but slightly unhinged new yawker would do…