i’ve been asking myself if i’ve been getting…

Good or bad karma these last few months?

this whole decade has been a see saw.
i think i’m getting something great,
but i end up losing more.
jobs.
wolves.
self.
it’s been some bs.
it could have been tough learning lessons to set me up now.
the full moon this morning is the last of the decade.
it started at 12:12.
diddy posted something interesting about it on his ig…

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we meet him,
we like him,
we wanna be with him.

…and end scene.
i don’t know if you’re like me,
but i am easily turned off as i am turned on.
i might really dig someone,
fall head first into these crazy crushes,
but the moment he does something that makes me have to side eye tf outta him,
he’s pretty much cancelled for me.
i’m very weary to dealing with fuck shit these days.
i was thinking about something that i wanted to share with the foxhole.
if dude is treating you like that now…

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foxhole…

This has been a tough upcoming holiday season.

2019 has been the pits.
it seems many people are losing folks left and right.
in the last week…

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i woke up with something on my spirit that i wanted to share with the foxhole.
i went to bed with ari lennox and her beef with the “soul train awards” on my mind.
this was the first thought when i woke up.

We HAVE to stop chasing things/people/males that don’t want us

trust me,
i have been suffering from it but i had my “a-ha” moment last night…

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one of my favorite tv couples is randall and beth from “this is us“.
i’d love to be the “beth” to someone’s “randall”.
so they both have this game they play called “worst case scenario“.
it’s where they say the worst cases of a situation and the fears they have about it.
it is a judgement free zone where you say whatever on your mind,
no matter how stupid,
goofy,
or crazy it may sound.
for this new season,
i watched an episode today where they got their kids into it:

i tried the same game out with a recent situation i found myself in…

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this goes out to all the:

managers
supervisors
coaches
or anyone in any kind of “leadership” situation.

WE DON’T NEED TO BE MICRO-MANAGED

seriously…
get that micro-managing shit outta here.
4real 4real…

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