hi, i’ve decided to be straight to lower the volume of the whispers

Is it just me or do we all know a male who seems to be living in a perpetual state of scrutiny?

maybe it’s us right now?
as we navigate the high-stakes forest of corporate life,
or even if we are in entertainment or sports,
the whispers begin the moment we start to climb the ladder.

“Is he married?”
“Does he have kids?”
“I don’t see him talking about anyone special…”

once those whispers gain volume,
especially if we are hiding who we are inside,
we will do anything to lower them.
we duck for cover with “the ugly“,
the desperate“,
or some black males get with “the white” to keep a low profile.
in all of those spaces,
it’s better optics to have a vixen on your arm around your straight (or white) peers.
even in our families,
among our friends,
at church,
or in the neighborhood,
if you’re a guy without that “basic” life…

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marvin bienaime issues a statement to quiet the alleged whispers

so it happened.
when it did,
i was alerted with the quickness too.
marvin bienaime issued a statement about the alleged whispers.
tbh,
something that i hope he did.
this is what he put up on his ig stories
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marvin bienaime stars in “the whispers are getting louder” (alleged)

so this story is picking up
marvin
wtf?
so the model,
levieux,
decided he had more time for marvin today.
he posted an alleged conversation between the two on ig.
this is what allegedly went down in the dms…
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marvin bienaime is starring in “the whispers” (alleged)

marvin bienaime,
or as i like to call him:

“doing the Lord’s work”

i’m a fan of how he takes his photos.
he knows the male bawdy very well.
so the following story is very alleged.
one of my foxholers alerted me about a potential brew.
so an african model named “levieux”:

…had a lot to font about marvin in his ig story.
this is “what was what?!?”
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