How do we measure masculinity in the black community?

Is it in the depth of our voice,
the weight we can lift,
or the quiet battles we fight when no one’s watching?

i’ve been cool with cheaters,
liars,
and even a few abusers who were all straight.
the wild part is…

we live in an age where getting older means getting better,
and let’s be honest,
some males just age like fine wine.

Take Tank aka Durrell Babbs,
for example.
At 48,
he’s looks better than he did when he first debuted on the scene.

mature ‘n’ fine tank always been aging well,
but the way he has been lookin’ on the r&b money tour…

i’ve always been a fan of tank and his music.
he is a major talent for singing and writing for other artists too.
i bought his first album and was into it heavy.
this is my favorite tank song EVER:

it did help he brought a nicely wrapped meaty package with his music.

Sidebar: For my birthday years ago,
I really wanted his second album,
“One Man”.
This chick that was once a friend bought me THE BOOTLEG CD.
Like,
from Chinatown.
I was SO MAD because I would have never bought her a bootleg.
Dumbass.

anyhoo…
earlier this year,
i was listening to tank‘s music on a swivel.
i was into “sex love and pain part 2” HEAVVVVVVYYYYYY.
tank had a recent interview with “drink champs“,
which is hosted by norega and dj efn.
he was asked about him performing for gay pride events…

Continue reading “tank been telling ya’ll he is an ally for the gay community but ya’ll don’t listen” →

i feel like i can only listen to tank‘s music when i want to have sex.
there are just some artists who turn me on.
my fantasy is to fuck him too but thats a whole other story.
he is on that list so i don’t listen to him much,
but i love the work he puts out.
sadly,
he shared some sad news with us on his ig.
he has gone completely deaf in his right ear…
Continue reading “let’s send healing and lots of love over to tank right now” →

straight males are getting comfortable these days.
some seem to be very honest about their “gay shit”.
the shit they would take to their graves.
tank is always revealing some of his “comfortable” thoughts.
he’s had no issue about being honest that he liked his wolf-hole sucked on.
now he has an interesting view about straight males  that have sucked a dick.
this is what he had to say on angela yee’s “lip service” by “hollywood unlocked”…

Continue reading “if you sucked a dick twice, you might still be straight (according to tank?)” →

tank.
tank.
tank.
you know i lust me some durrell babbs aka tank.
so in responding to mailk yoba’s “breakfast club” interview,
where malik spoke about his love for trans-vixens,
tank found himself allegedly getting exposed in the process.
he fonted this:

i didn’t take it in a negative tone.
well trans vixen,
shauna brooks,
did.
this is what she responded courtesy of “nique and nite“…

Continue reading “the trans vixen came like a tank for durrell babbs” →