everyone has an opinion of what’s gay and what’s straight.
i know for me,
i struggled with that when i was dealing with my sexuality.

Should I move my arms when I walk or should I keep them in my pockets?
Should I listen to males or vixens singing?
Should I deepen my voice or speak in my regular tone?
Should I befriend vixens or try to seek out male friendships?
Should I go to the gay club and risk being seen and humiliated?
Should I hang with him because he is feminine or will that make me guilty by association?

bad enough,
every decision i made was because i didn’t want to be judged.
i was judged,
picked apart,
and given years of trauma from family and peers.
i was exhausted and recently started to accept all of myself.
saucy santana thinks straight wolves shouldn’t smoke hookah.
why?
he thinks it’s feminine and only gays should be smoking hookah…

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usually,
k michelle says things and i’m like:

“Um,
what?”

i saw that come down my timeline and was kinda confused.
when i hear straight folks say they are gay roles,
i’m like what does mean exactly?
like,
what do we do with this information?
when a straight male proclaims he is a “power (top) wolf“…

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ray j shocked me today.
i know his sister that some of ya’ll didn’t know,
brandy,
has many gay friends and fans.
ray j encourages straight males to show gays more love…

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i hate when i go back to something and it’s been deleted.
anyhoo,
the tweet was from she-jackal and she said:

“Straight men shouldn’t be watching P-Valley.”

of course,
my whole head shot back like russell westbrook.

first off…
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gay males give the best compliments to straight males.
we have an eye for the attractive and the well dressed.
i’ve had numerous straights hit me up after i’ve featured them on one of my platforms.
it was all love and many thanks.
the straights who are confident in their sexuality aren’t the ones offended.
it’s the ones who get all up in their feelings…

in a title that screams new yawk,
the wolves over at “say less with kaz” had this to say about being complimented by gay males…
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you ever been around a straight male(s) and they start acting funny?
like,
they get uncomfortable around you.
they:

Won’t look in your direction
Greet everyone in the room but you
Wouldn’t even sit next to you

they’ve picked up that you’re gay and shit gets weird.
you can literally feel the “uncomfortable energy” in the room.
i’ve been there before and it sucks.
well joseph d had a message for all the straight males on his ig..
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