i applaud people who are brave enough to share their stories of abuse,
by putting their wounds online.
it can be the ugly side we don’t want to know or care to admit happens.
it’s humbling and pumps the brakes on comparison.
ever so often,
we may feel jealousy or envy towards the beautiful ones:

…but we don’t know the hell they are going through once the camera is off.
many of them are victims OR abusers.
it’s just a matter of when will we find out who does what.

a Foxholer sent me an IG post from jordano garcia:

he posted his pictures of his alleged abuse and it’s a trigger warning…