gay

some of ya’ll are bringing straights into our spaces and it’s making others uncomfortable?

as a young fox,
when i first started to dip my paws in this life,
i didn’t have many gay friends.
the ones i did encounter moved funny so i cut them off.
i had many friends that are vixens who cheerleaded for my exploration.
i didn’t feel comfortable doing it alone so i asked them to tag along.

I did a lot of my exploring in this life with Vixens.
One was straight and the others were lesbians of all kinds.

with the lesbians,
i learned they attracted foxes or straight wolves who want to fuck them.
the types of wolves that i wanted weren’t in their circles.
the straight one,
who wanted to be a gay male herself,
was cockblocking unintentionally (or maybe it was intentional?).
about her scaring off my first foxy love:

a foxholer sent me the following about straight vixens in the gay club…

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many gays use being a bottom as an insult

after the discussion yesterday about yardiestyle,
i noticed something that i’m glad one of the foxholers pointed out.
in trying to throw shade at yardiestyle…

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i had resentment toward tevin campbell as a kid

when i was a kid,
i did not like tevin campbell.
it wasn’t because of his talent because he can sang.
i would hear his music on the radio,
and even tho i liked what i heard,
i would feel resentment towards him because of one reason…

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tell these men to stop being sassy cause they are looking gay af

foxhole,
wake up,
a new word just became popular in the black community.
move over “narcissist” and make way for:

Sassy.

it’s not so much new but it’s being used to torment straight males…

…or is it pointing out how feminine many straight black males have become in today’s society?

a vix-bi sent me an interesting discussion on a podcast yesterday.
it was males asking vixens about males being “sassy”.
this inspiring discussion was on “daily rapup crew“…

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did i miss the memo when the rules of being straight changed?

as a gay male,
when i look at dante,
the first thing i see are those big powerful thighs.
the way his shorts are grippin’>
~~i love looking at big thighs in tight hoochie daddy shorts.~~
next,
i see his thick ass bawdy and lastly,
it’s his handsome face.
even though i don’t see much of a print,
i’ve still decided in my head and fantasies:

I’d let him smash.

as a gay male,
those are my rules of attraction.
i thought i knew what straight wolves liked,
but their rules have changed.
this tweet…

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what’s the weirdest thing you’ve been told not to do because it’s “gay” ?

that hand has been used to describe me more often than not.
that picture always unlocks a trigger.
i saw a thread on reddit titled:

What’s the weirdest thing you’ve been told not to do because it’s “Gay” ?

i know this topic all to well.
many of us were tortured by this growing up.
minding our business,
drinking our koolaid snaps,
and someone telling us something we are doing is “gay”.
i can name 2 that stick out in my head…