i’m gonna dedicate this entry to the straights.
oooooh,
our poor and simple straights.
you gotta hold their hands as you lead them to a dragging.
so as the above tweet stated:

“We been knew…”

i have a problem with that statement…

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“I just can’t be in that lifestyle…” he said.

the other night,
i had a conversation with an older friend i haven’t heard from in years.
he was actually the first male i came out to when i figured out who i was.
it was right after my mother’s death and we attended the same church.
during that time,
he admitted to me that he has had sex with males but “he can’t be in that lifestyle”.
he came up in the 60s and 70s in new yawk.
you read the stories of how being gay was back then.
he told me he thanks his lucky stars he never got any diseases but he watched many die.
during the conversation that we were having…

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i was today years old when i learned that tyson beckford is jamaican.
that actually explains a lot tbh.
tyson has been doing a lot of talking these days.
he went to “vlad tv” to re-ignite the spat that he has with kim kardashian.
he made a comment about her on “the shade room” in 2018 and she responded:

 

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…in a nutshell that he is allegedly gay.
vlad asked him to go more in detail about it and…

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for a while,
i was holding out on getting the jab.
i wasn’t an anti-jabbed civilian who never wanted to get it,
but i had a lot of questions that weren’t getting answered.
i was actually waiting for it to be fda approved.
even though i wasn’t jabbed,
i was on my p&qs.

Mask on
Social distancing
Staying away from large crowds
“Don’t even look at me“

that was all good until new yawk dropped this bomb on the city…

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yesterday,
i wrote an entry about a scene in the new “gossip girl”.
in the entry,
i fonted:

“opposites do attract and good dick/cheeks are out here with your name on it.”

in which it led foxholer,
john,
to respond:

Jamari have to disagree a bit. I don’t think there is any booty/dick with our names on it. No one really has relationships in the community. I’ve only seen one Ltr and they were white. We will die alone unfortunately. I’ve learned to accept that.”

i won’t lie,
the comment blew my top off.
when i really stewed on it tho…

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there are some males i assumed were straight.
i’m not one of them who assumes everyone is gay.
i like to give folks the benefit of the doubt but my gaydar do be off too.
i always thought @rickstarrr and that tongue of his to be straight.
a foxholer sent me this today…

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