i’ve never watched “abc’s the bachelor” a day in my life.
it never sparked my interest.
i would always say to myself:

“They would never have a black person on this show.”

i ended up being wrong because they had a sista on there before.
her name is rachel lindsay and of course,
she picked a white male because i doubt abc would have an all black cast.

see her ig: here

well today,
in what i feel is “trying to cater to the times“,
they casted a black male for their new season.
everyone meet matt james…
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they say when people are angry,
like the same effects with alcohol,
the truth usually comes out.
you will be shocked to know what your family and friends really think about you.
it can go both ways.
remember that time you threw some vicious insults at someone that offended you?
same rules apply.
i’ve seen it a lot in interracial situations like the one above…
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i had an interesting discussion with my cousin hybrid last weekend.
he has had more experience on the dating scene,
but he has dated/fucked a lot more white males.
i can font that i’ve never experienced that side of the dating forest.
the closest i’ve “cum” to that was a dry hump hook up with a biracial wolf.
it’s not to font i’d never date a white wolf,
but black wolves are my top choices.
latino wolves a strong second.
so my cousin hybrid goes on to say on that phone call:

“Let me tell you something about some black males…”

and that’s when he sorta blew my mind with that followed…

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during the jussie smollett shenanigans last week,
i was speaking to one of my fav vix bi on the ig foxhole.
she usually keeps me up to date with the latest happenings.
well,
she asked me a question that stayed with me.
it was:

Do you consider yourself to be a “gay black” fox or a “black gay” fox?

hmm.
i fonted that i was…

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imagine still being fine at 45 years old?
well that would be boris kodjoe.
nicole ari parker is a lucky vixen.
foxhole…
soooooo i didn’t know boris was biracial.
i thought he had two black parents in germany.
i could just be tired from a long ass day so forgive me.
well boris announced today that regardless of being biracial,
he’s still a black male.
this is what he put on his ig…
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todrick hall.
now,
i don’t know much about todrick.
i know he’s out.
sings,
acts,
dances,
and does drag on occasion.
black and white female celebs love him.
perfect out black gay male,
right?
i’ve noticed he doesn’t get a ton of support from other black gay males.
his support appears to be “other”.

white
mixed
random vixens

most of the complaints i’ve read been about is his dating preferences.
he prefers to play in the snow more than anything else.
so,
because of this,
that’s where he’ll get the majority of support.
that means he is also boosted to the top of the food chain as well.
it made me wonder…

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