some folks get mad when i say i like labels.
labels as in being defined in being pleased sexually.
we’d all be drinking bleach and eating rat poison.
we got some out here eating tide pods so…
i had an interesting conversation with an older snow wolf-turned-fox today.
he is discreet,
and needed to talk about something that went down.
a “in the life” type of conversation.
he was telling me about how he got his heart broken recently,
but he recognized how it was his fault…
he was in a relationship for about 6 months.
he met someone off a chat site and they hit it off.
they were both attracted to each other and decided to meet.
their “labels” never came up in the initial conversation.
when it came time to get into bed,
turns out they were both fucked.
in an effort to try and keep him,
he decided to change his label to “wolf”.
he never liked being on the top,
but he also never had someone who was interested in him either.
he dreaded sex because he wanted the same thing.
his friends urged him to keep it up,
and stop living with a label.
he went along with it for a while,
but it got to the point he was completely over it.
he started cheating with the wolves he was really attracted to.
once the fox found out,
he had to come clean about what he really wanted.
they broke up and they haven’t spoken since.
he learned he should have been honest.
that is one of my fears in this life.
folks in the life will try to bully you into living how they live.
it’s pretty similar to the bullying of the straights.
i’m a fox.
i am looking for a wolf.
it’s that simple.
i’m not changing and neither should you.
be honest about what you want from jump.
stupid games get stupid prizes.
nothing worst than vibing with someone you aren’t compatible with.