I’ve been a reader for about 2 years and have been a big fan of the site.I’m reaching out for advice with the relationship I’m in. I’m originally for Brooklyn NY grew up in Long-island moved to Atlanta for school (Georgia state) met a 28 year old wolf on jackd. I’m 20 we have really good chemistry we’ve been off and on a couple of times. Recently I moved in with him to save money on housing he has a townhouse in Atlanta and I thought why not so I moved in about a month ago and 2 weeks ago my boyfriend lost his job I work part time at w grocery store so I help out but it’s simply not enough my boyfriend tells me he puts up an add on jackd i instantly get upset and tell him I don’t think this is a good idea he says I don’t want to put an add on Craigslist because the overflow of responses would be to much. Ok so I’m out of town visiting family for the weekend and I call my boyfriend multiple times no answer so he calls me the next day and says sorry bae I was interviewing the new room mate I said why didn’t u tell me ohh u where in a mood. Okay cool he then tells me he’s a bottom light skin and sends me a picture of him I say ok he’s a bottom i don’t care why are u sending me a picture of him ohh just so u can kno what the new roomate looks like. He then says that he told him about me and showed him my Instagram and says this is my boyfriend. So I’m confused once again why are u showing this boy my Instagram now he says to my boyfriend am I the type to say something if he says hi to my boyfriend while he has his underwear on I then say wtf are u serious this is total disrespect unless he wants his ass whipped I don’t think this is a good idea my boyfriend says I’m over reacting we get into a huge argument he’s saying I need to get over myself I now want to go to this boys job and fight him. I feal like he can have him, Aswell as im looking to move out I need advice
Jamari please help
i read this f0xmail and i got tite.
i won’t even lie.
a lot of things about it made me vex.
lets start with the first thing:
“my boyfriend tells me he puts up an add on jackd”
why in god’s name would you put an ad for a roommate on a sex site?
my thing is an normal person would put an ad on craigslist.
who cares about the overflow of responses?
*sniff sniff sniff*
i’m already smelling the slight stink of bullshit.
first reason for me to serve him ex lax chocolates.
this was the second thing:
“I call my boyfriend multiple times no answer so he calls me the next day and says sorry bae I was interviewing the new room mate I said why didn’t u tell me ohh u where in a mood”
see that is a total lack of respect.
you and your wolf are BOTH living together.
you also need to be there when he is interviewing candidates.
this is a 50/50 sit-chu-a-tion.
bad enough he is alone interviewing someone from jackd.
bad enough he didn’t answer your calls.
thats where the stink really started to waft.
second reason all his tires would be flat.
now this is the third thing:
“He then says that he told him about me and showed him my Instagram and says this is my boyfriend. So I’m confused once again why are u showing this boy my Instagram now he says to my boyfriend am I the type to say something if he says hi to my boyfriend while he has his underwear on”
this is where they both wake up in pig’s blood.
i don’t know how much money you got in the bank,
but its time for you to look into moving out.
i don’t see this ending well.
like this sounds like stress and future prescriptions of xanax.
like why is your boyfriend not looking for another job?
why is he lookin’ for a roommate in the first place?
it sounds like you gonna be at work slaving,
and he is going to be at home fuckin’.
this is all there is to it.
sadly it is his townhouse,
so he can pretty much do what he wants.
you don’t want to be in a situation when the disrespect starts.
it will be you vs them.
if you break up with him,
you will be forced to watch them play house.
thats when they will get bold and start fuckin’ in ya face.
if anything pops off,
and you put them paws on them,
he can always says he owns that townhouse and throw you out.
he has no respect for you or the relationship.
i say start getting your act together and find your own spot.
even if you have to rent a room.
you don’t have to tell him anything.
real foxes move in silence.
never be at the mercy of a jackal in wolf’s clothing.