looking back on your life,
Have you ever done anything that made someone else uncomfortable?
whether gay or straight,
we can be too aggressive and it can lead to the discomfort of others.
this leads to the conversation about demarcus crews.
he’s the director of housing and residential education at “morehouse”.
he’s in quite the scandal these last few days.
it all started with a video on twitter about his behavior towards students…
Please get Morehouse’s attention. Myself and other students have suffered too long!! pic.twitter.com/KGmoquTCvW
— Three-fifth’s of a man I believe’s the phrase (@GrindAlways__) July 17, 2019
which led to this video as well:
— B. Karter (@brysonkarter) July 17, 2019
from what i read in a couple articles,
demarcus was an alleged mess out here.
as a top administrator at morehouse,
he was acting way too thirsty and tactless.
no reason why you’re in a higher position and allegedly via “heavy.com“:
“I was assaulted by a staff member at Morehouse College by the name of the DeMarcus Crews.” He says the assault sent him into a “bad depression.” He says Crews was “trying to force me to come out about my sexuality, making advances at me, telling me I need dick. Comments like that,” adding Crews allegedly said: “Didn’t I tell your bitch ass to text me if you need anything?” Declining to go into the specifics of the assault, he alleges in the beginning, Crews touched him in unwanted ways.
“In my freshman year, he used to do sh*t to me, hugging on me, pinching my cheeks … just predatory sh*t like that.”
In February, Karter got a call from a friend who said Crews had phoned him. The friend said Crews announced that Karter “came out to him,” and was “having sexual relations with a different student on campus…”
“He was making all these allegations, telling the student these things that I never said to him. I can take students talking about me, but when administration is saying these things and making up these rumors about students that’s when it’s been taken too far.”
one of the foxholers told me they allegedly messed with to him.
they claimed they could see him getting caught up in the allegations.
he was allegedly very “cocky” aka “doing too much“,
in their words.
it leaves me to wonder:
How far is too far?
in this life,
we are taught in the forests that “the more aggressive; the better“.
intense eye contact
being extra flirty and making hints
we test the waters to see who gets down and who is down to fuck.
they are okay with males doing the heavy lifting.
they continue on until it finally “happens“.
we have to realize WHEN we are doing entirely too much tho.
he’s always naked online so he should expect gays to be aggressive”
“Males are just as aggressive with vixens so they should deal with it from gays”
i use to have that same mentality,
but i have come to realize you have to be careful.
not everyone is open to YOUR aggressiveness.
we need to know that just because we have “power” in some capacity,
that doesn’t mean we need to use it perversely.
you start doing extra and be hit with “sexual assault”.
this doesn’t mean you can’t flirt.
the moment you start going overboard,
you can become “demarcus crews”.
lowkey: be careful of straight males who will act like their interested,
but suddenly pull back and act like you were “sexually assaulting” them.
there are many out here that aren’t to be trusted.
make sure you always keep your receipts with them.
article quotes cc: heavy
read more about this scandal: new york times