there are a lot of us who don’t want to be gay or even bi.
i mean,
it’s not an easy life to live.
some of us never really fit in and it’s worse…

When you are black and gay,
looking for something that probably doesn’t exist.

i can make a bet that:

If we decided tomorrow to turn straight,
we would get girlfriends by noon tomorrow.

i know i would.
there are so many vixens that would take my hand in marriage tomorrow.
tiktoker,
christian michael,
turned his life over to God and got delivert.
he is an ex-gay who is married to a vixen and had this message to share…

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i feel like in society ^this is what people think masculinity is.
for a long time,
this is what i thought being a male was tbh.
it was working out consistently,
playing some kind of sport,
having sex all the time,
and showing dominance over all the males in the pack.
from what i saw growing up:

Being the alpha male and throwing your dick on the table.

jonathan majors got interviewed by npr the other day.
he was asked his thoughts on masculinity.
his answer…

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we don’t know where people will land.
we always end up circling the block.
some of us were super corny growing up.
i was.

A few decades later,
you glo tf up and the rest peaked somewhere in high school.

that is the case with michael b. jordan and a past bully named lore’l.
she is a radio host/red carpet interviewer/love and hip hop person now.
imagine him not forgetting how he was treated in the past.
imagine him calling her out before she has to interview him…

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i have to make it a mission to watch all the creed movies.
^that is all i know of them to be.

Sexy-ass wolves boxing while their muscles percolate in HD sweat and slow-motion soft porn

michael b. jordan and jonathan majors,
two wolves with BAWDIES,
are starring in the third soft porn installment.

um,
halp.
the movie cums out this week and ^those two are on the promotional tour.
to add insult to injury,
it appears michael b. jordan is the new bawdy for calvin klein ss23…

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one thing i’ve learned in life,
especially as a blogger:

Everyone will not agree with what I have to say/font.
I can’t entirely agree with what others say/font either.
That is perfectly fine.

brandon lee aka @brandeness is getting the dragging of his life.
a foxholer sent me the following while on my day off.
this is what he had to say about his choice to not date poz males…

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everyone has an opinion of what’s gay and what’s straight.
i know for me,
i struggled with that when i was dealing with my sexuality.

Should I move my arms when I walk or should I keep them in my pockets?
Should I listen to males or vixens singing?
Should I deepen my voice or speak in my regular tone?
Should I befriend vixens or try to seek out male friendships?
Should I go to the gay club and risk being seen and humiliated?
Should I hang with him because he is feminine or will that make me guilty by association?

bad enough,
every decision i made was because i didn’t want to be judged.
i was judged,
picked apart,
and given years of trauma from family and peers.
i was exhausted and recently started to accept all of myself.
saucy santana thinks straight wolves shouldn’t smoke hookah.
why?
he thinks it’s feminine and only gays should be smoking hookah…

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