Everyone loves to play the asshole until shit happens.

a Foxholer once told me:

“You can be any kind of person,
but if you are kind,
people will stick by your side if you fall from grace.”

in my journey through the concrete forests of life,
this nugget of wisdom has surely has been many of my experiences.
sure,
kindness has sometimes led my spirit to be bruised and battered,
but more often than not,
it’s circled back to me in the most unexpected and beautiful ways.
people have remembered my kindness and did anything to help me.
the jackals who hurt me?
i watched them burn every bridge to be trapped on their own islands they created.
just yesterday,
i stumbled upon something that made me roll my eyes…

can i ask ya’ll a serious question.
this is just something i’ve been pondering the last few days,
while watching all the rage and think pieces from trump supporters.

Why is it okay for Trump to contradict himself?
Why does he get a pass for his shenanigans?

it’s like the sibling who can do whatever but we get punished for breathing wrong.
remember when it came to hilary “lock her up” clinton back in 2016…

dear Foxhole,

there is one thing you can do to disappoint me.
this is besides doing heinous shit that hurts someone else/other people.

When you get a blessing and fuck it up.

in this case,
losing a fantasy wolf.
one of my Foxholers did something that really disappointed me.
they got a blessing by bagging a sexy power wolf off IG and…

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I told three people today that it’s the anniversary of Star Fox’s death.
Two vixens; one wolf.

the vixens gave me some supportive words,
while the wolf,
well,
turned it back to himself.
we spent the rest of the text talking about him.
Not to font vixens are better—
i’ve met my share of self-absorbed vixens as well.

just yesterday,
i was telling my therapist that irl,
i come off like i have it all together.
on the Foxhole,
i’m painfully honest with my community but my walls are up to those i know.

I carry myself in a certain way,
trying to exude confidence and composure.
I look like I have it all figured out,
maintaining my overall presentation whenever I’m #outside. 
I put my best paws forward,
aiming for acceptance by those around.

what i’ve learned tho?…

Christian Combs has GOT to find an identity outside of his father.

…because at this moment,
his father is public enemy number one and when you are have his same face,
it will not end well for you either.
learning to read the room is a skill many can’t perfect.
remember:

“ME!
ME!
ME!”

…will have you fucked up each and every time.
so why did christian combs and quincy brown decide this was the right moment for…

Can we still have an opinion on a subject even if we have skeletons in our closets?

that was the question swirling in my mind today.
i saw joe budden taking center stage for his alleged past shenanigans again.
everyone was clamoring for his take on diddy’s latest drama,
despite knowing the whispers that follow his DV allegations.
his exes make no qualms of calling out his past domestic violence.
in typical joey fashion,
he had some choice words for tahiry’s claims about him:

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Anyway, here’s a video of Joe Budden gleefully telling a story of how he left his tour and broke into Tahiry’s home because she wouldn’t answer his texts pic.twitter.com/0VRomBYGMJ https://t.co/Zgsd6RiOyx

— – (@BasedJane) May 22, 2024

as you know,
or didn’t,
but i believe joe has one of the sexiest voices in podcasting.
i’d be lying if I said I wouldn’t entertain that voice at 1am.
let’s get real for a moment tho…