i hate when i hear people pressuring others to have kids.
like,
why do they even care?
some people freak out when i say i don’t want kids.
“i don’t like them and i don’t want them.”
add on:
they are expensive and the way they setting this country up nowadays…
nope.
it’s like they pressure you into something “because you are supposed to“.
i don’t think i ever wanted kids tbh.
as a kid,
i never dreamed of being a dad.
hell,
did i even want to be married?
as you get deep into your 30s and you are chillin’,
everyone starts to ask and wonder…
Where is your sperm going?
“In a tissue,
fuck you very much.”
i’ll be 100 that today,
i’m good on kids but I had to wonder:
If I met the manz of my dreams,
and he wanted to try the kid thing,
would I do it?
hmm.
i dunno what the future would hold.
today it’s a heavy “nope“; next year it’s “i want to be a hot dilf“.
i would be a dog/cat/plant dad tho.
that i can get with.
lowkey: some of the folks i know who had kids didn’t want them.
that is the real discussion.
Personally, I wouldn’t mind having kids, but I’m more financially stable.
The thing is, just because someone wants kids, doesn’t mean they’ll make good parents. A lot of people don’t have the mental capacity to have some self-reflection and think about if they’d actually be a good fit for raising another human being. Hell, some people seem like they only want children just so they can have someone to have authority over and low-key torture.
I’ve always wondered how many of our parents didn’t want us. I think about 90% of humans are accident babies.
Women do that A lot that’s why I stopped hanging wit bitches as much as I used to
Women try and pay off their gay friends and gay men need to stop
Being the stylist and bestie and emotional support dog
Cuz when they throw parties they not inviting their attractive male friends they’ll try and put Santana on us though many view gays as second class citizens but then sit and wonder why their gay friends aren’t married or having surrogate babies as though the culture fosters positive monogamous functional relationships . And they’re no help and some really only want to be nosy asking about your time line And relationship status as though they’re counselors and have any advice to give
I ask them about their biological clocks. Dont worry about what’s going on over here. No baby daddies and no stress
Pair off *** not pay
All of that!!!
Ase!
I do want kids but I need a partner who has the same ideals and values as me. We gotta be on the same page of making our kids be good citizens and push them further in life than what we have. Anything less and I’m not having kids. I vowed to myself that I would never be a selfish parent and that I would always do things in the best interests of my child. At the same time I believe in discipline and my kids ain’t gonna be like the rest of these bad ass overly entitled kids with no responsibility respect or direction. Nah I believe spanking that ass and timeouts with things being taken away. I believe in being hands on with your kid’s education and not letting a tablet or a phone raise them. My kids are probably going to hate me and be very ol skool but they’ll thank me later 🤣