being from new york,
where gay people are damn near everywhere,
its pretty much normal to me.
on your block,
at the store,
and walking the streets.
in the workforce gay ceos,
and co workers are large and in charge.
my career just happens to be in the entertainment industry.
a place where the lines are blurred when it comes to sexuality.
masculine gay and bi men are everywhere,
doing whatever they need to do to “make it”.
the cameras go off,
the gay comes out.
“damn his ass was fat as shit.” – the masculine bi r&b singer you all know said.
i’ve worked/attended fashion week and again…
men and women,
are mingling with gays.
everyone looks fuckin’ amazing.
goods time were had by all.
sure there are some straight wolves who don’t like gays,
but its never a “big deal” unless lines are crossed.
there is a lot of tolerance in the city.
i live in that bubble.
like how i do in real life,
i try to ignore the ignorance of others.
the internet is the one place every thinks they can be a thumb thug.
because of that,
i never go under posts about gays on black gossip boards.
i already know what i’m gonna see.
a bunch of heathens who suddenly recognize god when “gay” is brought up.
this is why i stay in my nice warm foxhole and mind my business.
this morning however,
i decided to read the comments on necole bitchie about ( x kordale and kaleb ) someone left.
here are some:
“So true and I’m sick of the gay community trying 2 force this lifestyle on everybody!”
“Who cares what you think you know!!!! It’s beyond disgusting! I’m tired of tip-toeing around ppl feelings!!! “Call a spade a spade”…..this mess is disgusting. I have no idea what the world is coming to. Sad to even bring kids into the world with all this foolishness!!!! It’s a choice boo-boo. God didn’t create you to be with the same sex….what a slap in the face! The devil is the one that got a hold to y’all minds! If you were intended that way….go head and make a baby ( only reason why we are on earth). When that happens plz let me know….I won’t hold my breath, lol. Stop telling them lies….I wish I wasn’t gay….I was born this way (my personal favorite, lol)….GTFOH!!!! Nothing but a one way ticket to h e l l….good luck!”
“Black men are really the bottom feeders of humanity. Their just gross. Either making kids with black woman and abandoning them, worshipping white woman/ lighter skinned woman, or now taking a womans kids to raise them in a gay household?? I’m disgusted. Confused, lost, & spineless. Ughh.”
“I’m sorry, I do not like the idea of gay men raising boys. I do not like it! And everyone is jumping on the gay bandwagon, we do not all have to support this lifestyle, nope, not even with our President alleging he agrees with it. Its hard enough growing up in a traditional or single parent household, kids raised by gay parents are not as happy as we portray them to be on tv and the internet.”
…a lot of different opinions than what my brilliant readers left.
after scrolling through half of the 333 comments over there,
i found myself thinking:
the majority where black women,
mostly all from church backgrounds (surprise surprise),
but what had me most confused was using of “gay queen terminology”…
“yasssss bitch read!”
“clock the tea honey!”
….oooooooooh now i get it.
so the “faggots” are good enough to steal their swag from,
but these same chicks don’t like the lifestyle?
isn’t that a huge contradiction?
they will pull out a bible ready to condemn,
but will be front row when it comes time to watch fuckin’ “fashion queens”.
i don’t get it.
maybe i’m not suppose to?
if you think my lifestyle is “disgusting”,
“pushing an agenda”,
or “unnatural” then go right ahead.
is it wrong i think its “disgusting” you have 3 baby daddies,
living on welfare,
and about to be pregnant with another?
what about this whole “agenda” of condemning black men because they don’t want your ass?
i think its pretty “unnatural” you been using your pussy and you still ain’t got a ring.
i also don’t think its “right” your same pastor is taking your money to buy a spaceship.
this is why i stay in my bubble and foxhole.
there is no fucks to give here.