Those are my words to my bottoms out there that are sick of dating stereotypical gay men. I like my dudes to be: masculine, sexy, fine, and mine. DL or Discreet. Doesnt matter: as long as you are masculine and something about you attracts me to you. No voguing or “Yes Ma’am”. Ummmmmmm………

If I wanted to date/fuck a bitch,
I would be looking in the pound.
Some might hate on my choices
but ask me if I give a shit?

Lemme ask ya’ll a question…

Do you hate when someone tells you that you will NEVER find that sexy masculine-like negro?
Are you fed up with people telling you that you have to “settle”?
You go to these little chat sites and the fine dudes are a dime a dozen?
You go out in real life and you feel no one is tryna talk to you?

I was sick to death of it.

Listen,
A queen once told me, “Honey, give them life!!”
Which in masculine language means,
“Get your confidence together.”
That’s it.

CONFIDENCE.

Why, do we as gay men, can’t have what we want? You ever notice these queens messing with the FINE dudes. Have you like, W-THE-F? It can be a blow to your self esteem because you ask yourself what are you doing wrong.? You can have any nigga you want. Just like with straight folks, they can get whoever they want.  When you walk in a room, you are the the sexiest nigga in the room even if there are better looking niggas. They shouldn’t matter. You matter. Do not second guess YOURSELF and think you have to settle for any nigga, any BUM ASS NIGGA, because some asshole with low self esteem can’t pull a nigga, Jamari Fox is telling my bottoms that if you want a sexy ass nigga, you will get him. It may take some time. You may kiss some frogs. But if you want a masculine DL or Discreet dude, you will get him. He maybe an asshole or he maybe your Prince Charming, but you CAN and WILL get that nigga.

Now say it with me:

YES. I WILL HAVE THAT FINE TOP ASS NIGGA.

Go get em.