learn to use the straights before they try to use you

as a black gay content creator,
who has launched the Foxhole in 2009,
i learned the hard way how many straights can use you for their benefit.
i’ve seen other gays who do content or have pull get used as well.
if you have a “i want to be liked” spirit,
or “i want to fuck every attractive and sexy male” spirit,
you will always fall into their traps to your doom every time.
the hard reality is…

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Ray J Had Some Things To Say About Whitney Houston (Eek!)

well he had a lot to say about kim k!
am i the only one who thought he was sexy in that tape?
smh.
so apparently someone released an old interview with ray j.
he was talking about his relations with kim k and the great whitney houston.
well he had a lot to say about the late singer.
like how he used her for fame and wasn’t really feeling her.
yeah.
take a listen…
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LOST IN THE VALLEY OF THE DOLLS

Is it me, or is the black community filled with an abundance of users?

Why can’t we as blacks never get it right?
I know we have talked about this type of Wolf,
but it seems that even your own “friends” or people we work with.
Someone who on the outside portrays the epitome of “good” to everyone else,
but they have the wrong intentions and the wrong spirit… with you.
Everyone speaks so highly of them, but they want to give you their ass to kiss.
It is always a downer to meet someone like this because you keep asking, “why can’t everyone else see this??”

Can’t these fuckers come with a warning label?

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Foxy Lifestyle: The Jackals and Hyenas of our Lives

It’s time for a mental turn around.

After these last few entries,
I see there is one trend that has not been addressed.

BEING USED AND BACK STABBED.

FRIENDS
FAMILY
WOLVES

We call USERS and BACKSTABBERS in the Foxhole = JACKALS AND HYENAS.

I have had my kindness taken for granted by people who did not care what they did.
In turn, they talked crazy shit about me all over the Forest.
Thank God I learned to ignore or I would have been doing house calls.
But trust and believe in 2011,
I have been an expert on how to spot a user and how to wrap them around my finger.

Here are some tips I have picked up on throughout the years…