when you get into a relationship with someone,
and they happen to be with someone else,
you should already know what you are getting into.
you will always come second.
sometimes in more ways than one.
well thats if the person really hate who they are with.
they are only together just for the cubs,
the money,
or appearances.
the thing about being on the side is things could change at any moment.
it goes from:

“i’m leaving them for you”
“i think we gonna work it out”

sometimes with the latter,
you end up getting left in the dust.
well the story of ex baller wolf,
buster barnett,
is sort of the example of what i’m talking about.
his side chick was not pleased with a decision he made with his wife.
the results?
well…
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are we still letting people we meet on chat sites in our cribs?
ya’ll know these forest dwellers be dangerous!
trying to get your goodies…
and all the good expensive shit in your spot.
well this following story is rather interesting.
check this report from myfoxdetroit…
Continue reading “Beaten, Bruised, Busted (& Disgusted): Another Chat Site Hook Up Gone Wrong” →

love this quote.
it was needed.
see…
after i wrote that entry,
this quote popped up on my tumblr timeline.
i’m on the right path.
i have to pay attention to what shows up.

people have this huge misconception you cannot be sad.
you cannot have feelings.
even as a man.
you always have to “happy go lucky” every day.
ignoring everything that is eating you up inside.
i think this is where celebs go wrong.
they try to put on this front everything is “okay” in their world.
that material things and selfies means life is peachy keen.
it causes us,
the people in the audience,
to feel we need to be the same way.
that if we aren’t smiling 24/7,
or acting like life is completely perfect,
that something is wrong with us.
i have to say…
Continue reading “Summertime Sadness (Its Sadder Day)” →

well there is a couple twists in this “yung trizzy trill/raging jackal” scandal.
so remember how it was just him getting dome?
also remember how people came in the foxhole to defend him?
remember someone said the jackal got mad because they didn’t do anything?
…hmm.
well the kind folks of twitter linked me to this picture this morning.
its a screen shot from the rest of the video and welllllllll….
(this picture is DEF NSFW,
18^,
AND NOT FOR THE STRAIGHTS)
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everyone has a story.
every last one of us.
we look at people we are attracted to and think:

PERFECT

…but once you get to know them,
you will see they are struggling/have struggled with something.
the sad part is people won’t even talk to us once they find out our story.
well one if my f-bi sent me this story.
its the perfect sunday story for those who need a testimony.
everyone meet “fit4duty_”…
Continue reading “The Fine Wolf With The Story” →