I had to wonder:
Have you ever wondered what happens when the pursuit of acceptance turns into a debt trap?

i’m learning to be glad i wasn’t accepted when i desperately wanted to be.
God was really looking out for me.
it left me with the ability to be transparent about the good and the bad.
others i know,
sadly,
would probably die if their followers knew the truth about their lives.
they’ve created such a highlight reel that there’s no going back.
take brandon miller for example.

while his wife,
candice miller,
was vacationing in europe,
he deleted himself in the garage of their flaunted crib.
why?…

a breakup
a job loss
rejection
the death of someone close to us
setbacks that make us question our path
being ostracized from people we thought were our friends/family
struggling to accept not being straight
being violated and no one wants to listen or believe you/sides with the abuser

all these unwelcome guests can open the door to depression.
one moment…

You what this reminds me of?
When your mind makes something bigger than what the reality is.
“He is probably without me and having a good life”…
and then he tells you he has been miserable and flexin’ heavy on the gram.

as a content driven society that lives for drama,
the recent #whereiskate scandal had us all in grips.
kate middleton vanished and we wanted to know where TF she went.
i won’t lie but the conspiracy theories were a fun ride.

I was expecting the one where Kate found out Will was cheating and went rogue.
She was a planning a divorce and she would team up with Meghan for a BRF take down that would be streamed on the OWN network.

alas,
like our minds making things bigger than they actually is,
kate middleton has been in a private battle.
she revealed that she has been fighting cancer today…

This is the face of someone who will find love again.
He just has to heal from this current hurt.

i was sent in a video that made me sad.
it was from @dougiedougdouglas and his story is pretty brutal.
it’s a story we all have or may experience regardless of looks,
wealth,
or IG clout…

i am not the sex app kind of fox.
i came to that conclusion a long time go.
many of us aren’t and thats okay.
i have bagged some sexy ass wolves irl by the vibes give off.

I’m giving eye contact
I’m touching an arm or shoulder
I’m showing hella interest that I’d be interested in that dick
I look good, dress, and smell good
I’m transiting all my sexual energy to whoever I’m into

gay males.
dl males.
curious males.
“would only be gay for you” males.
i feel like i try too hard when i’m on an app vs not paying attention irl.
a foxholer sent me a video of someone looking for a hookup,
but getting turned down in real time and caught on camera…

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as you know,
i quit reality tv many years ago and never looked back.
i don’t know how ya’ll watch that shit.
after a point,
it’s the same recycled storylines and beef.
besides an actor coming out …

no one (i know) is really into “the real friends of weho“.
are these people even friends?
some of ya’ll tune in heavy to those ratchet-ass gay shows on zeus.
todrick hall is part of the cast and isn’t getting much love either.
he posted an open letter for everyone to read via ( x pop craze )…

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