i’ll be honest,
i’m tired of black folks getting involved when we aren’t appreciated.
even in a war between white folks,
we are still the enemy.
with everything happening between ukraine and russia,
as much as i hate all this senseless violence,
this is what stopped me from being emotionally involved…

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FOXMAIL

Hi Jamari,

I’ve been reading your blog for a few years now and wanted to vent (and ask for your opinion) since I don’t really have any gay friends and I consider you a friend in my head (as Wendy Williams would say.)

I go to the gym in downtown New York during the week and usually go in the sauna after my workouts. As you may or may not know, it usually gets sexual once the straights walk out. I usually go to the gym by my job but the last two days I have tried one in a different neighborhood. Yesterday I had a good experience, but today when I went it was my first time having a negative experience.

This new location had both a steam room and a sauna. I walked into the steam room and there were about 7-8 fit white men. Usually, I am used to seeing a diverse crowd, but I sat down like I usually would. Within less then 5 minutes all the white men walked out. So, I stayed in the steam room for about 10 minutes and decided to see what the energy was like in the sauna. There were like 4 new (white faces) and like 5 of the 7 men that were in the first room. Again within 5 minutes the majority of the men left and based on the direction they all went back into the steam room. I then saw a black guy go into the room with all of the white men and they walked out. When the black guy came into the room I was in, the white guys walked back into the empty room. There was 1 overweight white guy who came into the room me and the other black guy was in, and once any fit white guy looked into our room they wouldn’t come in.

Part of me felt it was racist, but another part felt like it was also because I don’t have a perfect body (I have an average body – flat stomach but no six pack). Regardless of the reason, this experience felt super catty, racist, and just inhumane. I understand everyone isn’t going to be attracted to you, but it felt very “you can’t sit with us.” I have had guys I wasn’t attracted to hit on me in the saunas before, but I still treat them with decency. I’ve heard stories about how white gays can be, but this was my first real experience with them in a group. I try to not stereotype groups, but this has really made me not want to deal with them in the future.

Do you think I am overreacting to this situation? What has your experience with white gays or gays in general been like?

P.S – This has motivated me even more to get the body I aspire to, and once I get there to remain humble.

MY ANSWER…

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when you live in the hood all your life,
you often desire to buy a house and move to the suburbs.
that was always one of my dreams.
unfortunately,
i was told by many black folks just how awful living in the suburbs can be.
you learn just how racist white jackals can be to their black neighbors.
the following video is of another karen gone wild.
she is accusing her black neighbors of their pitbull harassing her poodle.
thank God for homes with cameras on them because…

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the rona has really allowed many people to get in touch with themselves.
some are seeing what’s really important in their lives.
as you know,
i don’t watch reality tv anymore.
i do know that nene leakes has officially left rhoa tho.
isn’t like the fourth time?
she has been “friend” to “i’m back!” on a few occasions.
aunt wendy went on “wwhl” with andy cohen…

and nene flipped her shit on twitter…

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foxhole…
whew.
a majority of the foxhole is black.
racism is at an all time high these days.
i knew folks would use the rona as a way to be more wicked.
i watched a video and i wanted an opinion from the foxhole.
in the following video,
an asian couple called the police on a black couple for eating in the park…

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i forgot how sexy mechad brooks is.
he was always one to just show up,
take off his shirt,
and show that amazing bawdy of his.
well,
he has been doing a lot of tweeting lately.
a foxholer sent me one about his alleged thoughts on racism and well…

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