i was telling my therapist how i’ve been in my emotional bag today.
i’ve been off af.
things are weird.
the energy is weird.
as he put it,
i am probably in an “emotional plague” and to go with it.
after therapy,
i felt a little better and decided to check my ig dms.
foxhole…

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i’ve known my bff,
pose,
since 2002.
we actually met through someone else and became tight.
i watched pose go from working at the “toys r us” in times square to a multifaceted business vixen.
i’m so proud of her and it was a no brainer she would make an appearance on my podcast.
 last weekend,
she was joined with her other half,
“rich auntie” from their own podcast,
“non-corporate girls“.
we had a discussion about working a 9 to 5,
juggling a 5 to 9,
and everything in-between…

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michelle obama is a great “everything”.
i am always impressed by what she has to font and say outloud.
one of my dreams is to meet her one day.
as you know,
the united states witnessed a very low moment in recent times.
everyone is either still talking about it or trying to purge it out of their systems.
i’m here for the purge.
michelle obama shared her thoughts via font on her twitter today…

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the holidays are a tough time for many of us.
this year,
during the wonderful world of the rona,
it took seasonal depression into overdrive.
confession:

I’m going through one of the worst seasonal depressions ever.

i’ve literally been dragging my paws on many things.
ask me when i’m watching “the undoing” rather than sleeping in?

when i started the podcast,
i always wanted to make sure we could have good fox talk about issues like this.
well…

I had my first foxholer on the podcast as a guest last week!

blue,
who has been following me since ’09,
was the first to grace the foxhole podcast about this rona-rific holiday season…

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we can spend a lifetime searching for the love of our lives.
dating ain’t easy ya’ll.
it requires a shit ton of energy tbh.
in this life,
we meet some males and think:

“YES!
THE ONE!
FINALLY!
I WON’T HAVE A HOUSE FULL OF CATS AND MEMORIES.“

…and a majority of the time,
it turns out to be “the one who was sent from satan“.

i haven’t given up on finding someone,
but i’m taking a sabbatical.
if someone comes along,
i’ll entertain,
but i’m done searching.
the following story broke my heart today.
life can have a weird sense of humor.
it was about a gay male by the name of pierre,
who moved from paris to atlanta.
he met the love of his life and well…

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relationships are not easy.
i’ve started to learn and realize that.
it’s not all sex and social media selfies.
it is learning how to adapt and grow with another person,
even when they get on your last nerves.
their shit stinks,
they might be selfish,
or you have to teach them how to be in a relationship.
zednray,
the two wolves in a relationship,
seem to be making it work.
well they debuted something new and i must say…

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