i always liked to hear other people’s experiences.
you can learn a thing or two if people shared more.
well immanuel,
from one of my fav readers/bloggers,
left a comment under ( x my pastor gives aids better than you ).
he had some experiences with some pastors and well…
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can we talk about how great that episode of “the walking dead” was?
spoilers ahead…
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i wanted to see “addicted” this weekend.
like really wanted too.
it was battling greasy chicken and bad ass kids on saturday.
plus it was pouring and blah.
today i was planning on going to see it.
well i heard from multiple sources,
or my people and the f-bi,
that this movie was absolutely…
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FOXMAIL

Okay J…
First off, gotta say thanks for your site. You have no idea what it means to see someone existing and conquering that’s kinfolk.
I’m writing because I want your opinion on what I should do in the midst of an awkward office situation.
I work in an office where I’m one of four black people. I also happen to be the lowest on the salary ladder – entry level.
The other colored folk are senior staff pulling in well over six figures.
Recently, one of the [black] senior staff came by my desk and began making small talk about my college because I keep a small alumni banner in my area. #HBCUsStandUp
He tells me there’s a young man at his church who goes to my alma mater home from college for some random family reason, and goes on to say that he would love for all of us to do lunch.
So, his secretary sets it up and we meet a week later at a somewhat swanky restaurant I’d never been to across the street from our office.
After arriving late, he sits down, makes small talk, and casually mentions he left his wallet at home, could I cover it?
Not wanting to look a certain way in front of my young college brother, I casually nod yes meanwhile my mind is racing and my heart has stopped several times.

I budget my money down to the cent, literally. After paying my bills, (motherFUCK SallieMae) and pledging to not help family anymore and then helping family anyway, I am left with just enough to make it for the month, and sometimes not even that if a pair of shoes catches my eye.
I wound up putting the meal – $100 – on my credit card.
Now, the question is do I even approach him about repayment at all…
I feel like he set up the meeting and knew what this was gonna be. Sure, many men forget their wallets, but he knew he still had this meeting so why not cancel or postpone???
But then again, he’s a powerful man with many a connection and I don’t want him to pitch a bitch and hold a grudge if I ask for that money back … but clearly he knows I don’t do $100 lunches for 3 on me often, hell, at all, right?
But Lord,  that’s 10 edge-ups or 2 tanks of gas or a whole ass pair of nice shoes (2 if you know how to shop) …

Should I take an “L” on this one (in the name of networking – can’t front, I def benefited from having the opportunity to chat with him)?

MY ANSWER…

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brag so hard with ^that piece of paper.
so last night i did something stupid.
it actually lead to me having a really good conversation.
one that i’m still thinking about.
last week was “gone girl”.
this week is “late night conversations”.
i wanted to share with the foxhole…
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sooooooo…
i am late on this new show called “survivor’s remorse” on starz.
can we talk about how starz is home to all the great black programming now?
well this show was executive produced by king james.
yes.
king james of the now defunct miami heat.
a brief synopsis about the show:

From the streets of North Philadelphia, Survivor’s Remorse centers on basketball star Cam Calloway’s (Jessie T. Usher) rise to professional stardom and maintaining financial comfort, to avoid being another statistic of superstars going broke. When you’re in your early twenties with millions in a bank account, it’s hard to shy away from luxurious living in a different world – being in a new tax bracket.

Now that young Killa Cam has finally made it out the hood, he’s having a hard time of making an adjustment by not forgetting but progressing with his closest family, friends and associates he’s taking care of. Women, extortion and criminal acts are some the situations you’ll come across.

hmm.
about baller wolves?
i’m interested.
now lets watch episode 1 and 2 down below…
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