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foxmail: i had a threesome with my friend and his man, they want more, but i’m good! HALP!

FOXMAIL

Hey J,
Is FoxMail still a thing???
Well, hopefully, it is… But first off, let me say Happy New Year. May this year hold everything you want and grant all that you need.
Secondly, thank you for you. I’ve legit grown up with the foxhole.
Ok, the T: I had a threesome with one of my friends and his boyfriend a few weeks ago.
I’m 32 but it was also my first time ever doing anything beyond kissing. Period. They knew this and I felt I was ready. And. It. Was. Fucking. Amazing. I was ready to not be a virgin and quite honestly, the pandemic had been a doing a number on me. I hadn’t so much as danced with anyone since February and thought at least this way I could be with someone I knew and trusted. However, I am not interested in being a throuple or in a regular ménage a trios situation. It was one (well, two) and done for me and now my friend (also 32) and his BF (a young ass 45) are trying to make this a thing and will not let it go. I’m honestly not interested and just wanna be a freak with MY boyfriend whenever I get one.
I just want my friend back sans any sex.

Did I mess up royally by blurring these lines?

MY ANSWER…

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Posted in A LIL TASTE OF JAMARI WOW X MARKS THE FOX

my homeboy is struggling with his health ever since he caught the rona

i’m a believer.
you never truly care about something until it affects someone close to you.
one of my home-wolves ended up catching the rona.
i think i fonted about this before.
he ended up getting it through his wife,
who got hers by attending a halloween event with her trump supporting family.
he lives in atlanta and has been going through it since he got it…

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Posted in A LIL TASTE OF JAMARI CONCRETE FOREST STATE OF MIND GOOD MUTHAFUCKIN' TIMES SOMETHING OPRAH WOULD TELL YOU

when the people you fall out with match your new energy

i’ve learned that if you just detach and move on,
you’ll find your answers eventually.
yesterday,
i had a dream that i had a convo with a friend i fell out with recently.
we haven’t spoken since summer.
i told them in the dream how much they hurt me by what they did.
i woke up and went about my day.
foxhole,
why that night…

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Posted in A LIL TASTE OF JAMARI LIVIN' THIS LIFE WE LIVE

something wicked is happening next door

you never know what other folks are really going through next door.
by next to you,
i mean the people we are close with.
we often act self absorbed like:

“Why aren’t they reaching out to me?”
“Why are they ignoring my calls/texts?”
“WHY? WHY? WHY?”

don’t get me wrong,
some folks are out here moving real funny.
others,
however,
be having some real shit going on.
a friend of mine taught me this yesterday…

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Posted in JACKALS, HYENAS, AND PINEAPPLES LIVIN' THIS LIFE WE LIVE NAH THEY HAVE NO CHILL BUTTON WOW X MARKS THE FOX

i didn’t know he could spread his cheeks so wide (revenge porn)

revenge porn.
many people don’t realize it’s illegal in many states.
what is revenge porn?
according to ( x wikipedia ):

Revenge porn or revenge pornography is the distribution of sexually explicit images or video of individuals without their permission.[1] The sexually explicit images or video may be made by a partner of an intimate relationship with the knowledge and consent of the subject, or it may be made without his or her knowledge. The possession of the material may be used by the perpetrators to blackmail the subjects into performing other sex acts, to coerce them into continuing the relationship, or to punish them for ending the relationship.

you can get a fine and one to five years in jail.
honestly,
not worth the drama.
today,
i got a message on messenger from a dude i’m cool with.
the message?

It was him showering,
naked,
spreading his cheeks,
and fingering himself

oooooh yeah…

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Posted in A LIL TASTE OF JAMARI LIVIN' THIS LIFE WE LIVE

When You Go Back To Someone Who Hurt You

why do we go back?
why do we turn around for the sequel?
maybe even sign on for a trilogy?
it was a question i was asking myself today.
as much as we expereinced so much hurt the first go round…

Why do we go back to those who aren’t good for us?

i mean…

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