Glad to see Taejahn is getting a lot of success in his modeling career.
Been around him through a Vixen and backstage work and he is a really humble Wolf.
Thought I’d share this little piece of meat with my Foxes…
The Man :
Yea I do want it, I want it a lot actually, thanks Vain.
No problem. I personally hate when people over-simplify dating as simply “putting yourself out there.” There are definitely techniques and strategies that increase your likelihoods to meet someone. I’m still trying to get the hang of it myself. Its tough. I’m working on building my confidence. We don’t seem to talk about these things amongst ourselves and i think we need to. If you get right down to it, most of us barely know what we’re doing when it comes to dating so we end up choosing low hanging fruit.
UrSoVain :
The solution is to look for signs. Extended eye-contact, smiling, and subsequent Facebook/ twitter investigating lol. OR, if you need to more concrete proof, you can make an A4A and search the ones in your area or download jack’d on your mobile device and scan to see who’s around. Although i frown upon online dating and you don’t necessarily have to message them, it is easier to extent a hello via the internet. “Hey, I’ve seen you around campus, figured I’d say hello and ask whats your major and classification?”
If you’re a wolf, your prospects are probably huge and most foxes are waiting (often times desperately) to be approached. All you’d have to really do is pick one.
yea you rite.
Lol, I mean. Its just my perspective. Its all up to you and how much you want it.
Yea I do want it, I want it a lot actually, thanks Vain.
Why does he look fairly familiar to me?
The Man :
You got it. I aint approaching nobody I don’t know. I was very social in highschool, but ever since I’ve been here I’ve been quiet and isolated.
Oh, so you do know why you are single and subsequently what the solution is! That’s step one and two of solving your problem lol
Been here? Where is “here”?
I’m in college. I don’t know what the solution is to be honest.
The solution is to look for signs. Extended eye-contact, smiling, and subsequent Facebook/ twitter investigating lol. OR, if you need to more concrete proof, you can make an A4A and search the ones in your area or download jack’d on your mobile device and scan to see who’s around. Although i frown upon online dating and you don’t necessarily have to message them, it is easier to extent a hello via the internet. “Hey, I’ve seen you around campus, figured I’d say hello and ask whats your major and classification?”
If you’re a wolf, your prospects are probably huge and most foxes are waiting (often times desperately) to be approached. All you’d have to really do is pick one.
UrSoVain :
Lets stick to the boys (i dont get fysh). I think we all feel some type of inadequacy. Perhaps that’s normal. What about you would you change in order for you to believe you would have a chance? Is it something external like your looks? Do you believe men are as picky or as judgmental as you are?
No it can’t be my looks, most people find me more attractive then what I find myself. I don’t draw attention to myself like most people, I like to fly under the radar, but not to the point where I don’t get noticed. Or maybe i get noticed more often than I think, I don’t know?
So if it isnt your looks then I’m thinking its because don’t put yourself out there? Meaning you aren’t the type to approach? For you to mention that you don’t believe you have a shot, there has to be something that’s holding you back.
You got it. I aint approaching nobody I don’t know. I was very social in highschool, but ever since I’ve been here I’ve been quiet and isolated.
The Man :
I wasn’t agressive enough that’s what I believe.
Explain.
If I see somebody I want I won’t say anything to them at all especially if I don’t talk to them. I just keep quiet because I know I proly don’t have a shot. I’m currently doing just that with a guy I like now. A few months ago I was talkin to a female and she wanted me to go out of my way for her, I wasn’t having that because I was already doing enough, so I just ended it, we are still friends tho.
Lets stick to the boys (i dont get fysh). I think we all feel some type of inadequacy. Perhaps that’s normal. What about you would you change in order for you to believe you would have a chance? Is it something external like your looks? Do you believe men are as picky or as judgmental as you are?
UrSoVain :
No, actually not everyone is big on faces lol. You’d be surprised at the amount who only go for mediocre because they’re easier and come with less hassle. But its not really about whether you date or just sleep around. I wanted to know what does the type of guy you date tend to look like. Most wolves can sleep with just about anything with a pulse so its important to be specific when wanting to know what your actual type is. There are plenty out there who are cute and have nice personalities. What explains your single-hood?
I don’t know why I’m single Vain, I really don’t, but I know I’m doing something wrong.
That sounds kind of harsh =(
What happened the last few times you’ve pursued a serious relationship with someone? I’m sure there’s a solution.
I wasn’t agressive enough that’s what I believe.
The Man :
1.Chris Brown
2. Brian White
3. Lance Gross
Ah, i see! You’re big on faces. And are these men indicative of the type of men you DATE (not just sleep with)?
Well Vain, most people are big on faces. I’m the relationship type. I’m not just lookin for a fuck all the time. If a dude is cute and cocky, I would just wanna sex him down, Chris Brown would be a perfect example. If a dude is cute with a nice personality, I would lock him down.
No, actually not everyone is big on faces lol. You’d be surprised at the amount who only go for mediocre because they’re easier and come with less hassle. But its not really about whether you date or just sleep around. I wanted to know what does the type of guy you date tend to look like. Most wolves can sleep with just about anything with a pulse so its important to be specific when wanting to know what your actual type is. There are plenty out there who are cute and have nice personalities. What explains your single-hood?
UrSoVain :
Interesting. Can you give other examples of what your type looks like?
I like dudes with a nice body, he doesn’t have to be buff or anything like that, but if he’s skinny(like most dudes are including myself) he has to know how to carry himself. He has to be well groomed too, that’s always a plus for me. I like a dude who takes care of himself. I’m not trying to sound picky, but you know…
Those things are pretty default. Everyone says a slight variation of nice body, well groomed, put together, and so forth. I’m more concerned with physical types. So i guess my next question is who is your top 3 celebrity crushes (if you have any)?
1.Chris Brown
2. Brian White
3. Lance Gross
The Man :
I know this post is for the foxes, but that face, that face is so pretty, real talk.
Is that how you like ’em? Real pretty by the face?
Yea… that’s how I like ’em Vain, it’s not only pretty, but it’s mainly also. That’s square jawline is a turn on, he got some pretty ass eyes too. I’ll beat that dude to pieces.
Interesting. Can you give other examples of what your type looks like?
I know this post is for the foxes, but that face, that face is so pretty, real talk. 🙂
He is a special type of beautiful… To the response above…your ugly is somebody’s beautiful.
He’s not cute to me.
^he is much better looking in person so I see his appeal in modeling.
No problem. I personally hate when people over-simplify dating as simply “putting yourself out there.” There are definitely techniques and strategies that increase your likelihoods to meet someone. I’m still trying to get the hang of it myself. Its tough. I’m working on building my confidence. We don’t seem to talk about these things amongst ourselves and i think we need to. If you get right down to it, most of us barely know what we’re doing when it comes to dating so we end up choosing low hanging fruit.
yea you rite.
Lol, I mean. Its just my perspective. Its all up to you and how much you want it.
Yea I do want it, I want it a lot actually, thanks Vain.
Why does he look fairly familiar to me?
Oh, so you do know why you are single and subsequently what the solution is! That’s step one and two of solving your problem lol
Been here? Where is “here”?
I’m in college. I don’t know what the solution is to be honest.
The solution is to look for signs. Extended eye-contact, smiling, and subsequent Facebook/ twitter investigating lol. OR, if you need to more concrete proof, you can make an A4A and search the ones in your area or download jack’d on your mobile device and scan to see who’s around. Although i frown upon online dating and you don’t necessarily have to message them, it is easier to extent a hello via the internet. “Hey, I’ve seen you around campus, figured I’d say hello and ask whats your major and classification?”
If you’re a wolf, your prospects are probably huge and most foxes are waiting (often times desperately) to be approached. All you’d have to really do is pick one.
No it can’t be my looks, most people find me more attractive then what I find myself. I don’t draw attention to myself like most people, I like to fly under the radar, but not to the point where I don’t get noticed. Or maybe i get noticed more often than I think, I don’t know?
So if it isnt your looks then I’m thinking its because don’t put yourself out there? Meaning you aren’t the type to approach? For you to mention that you don’t believe you have a shot, there has to be something that’s holding you back.
You got it. I aint approaching nobody I don’t know. I was very social in highschool, but ever since I’ve been here I’ve been quiet and isolated.
Explain.
If I see somebody I want I won’t say anything to them at all especially if I don’t talk to them. I just keep quiet because I know I proly don’t have a shot. I’m currently doing just that with a guy I like now. A few months ago I was talkin to a female and she wanted me to go out of my way for her, I wasn’t having that because I was already doing enough, so I just ended it, we are still friends tho.
Lets stick to the boys (i dont get fysh). I think we all feel some type of inadequacy. Perhaps that’s normal. What about you would you change in order for you to believe you would have a chance? Is it something external like your looks? Do you believe men are as picky or as judgmental as you are?
I don’t know why I’m single Vain, I really don’t, but I know I’m doing something wrong.
That sounds kind of harsh =(
What happened the last few times you’ve pursued a serious relationship with someone? I’m sure there’s a solution.
I wasn’t agressive enough that’s what I believe.
Ah, i see! You’re big on faces. And are these men indicative of the type of men you DATE (not just sleep with)?
Well Vain, most people are big on faces. I’m the relationship type. I’m not just lookin for a fuck all the time. If a dude is cute and cocky, I would just wanna sex him down, Chris Brown would be a perfect example. If a dude is cute with a nice personality, I would lock him down.
No, actually not everyone is big on faces lol. You’d be surprised at the amount who only go for mediocre because they’re easier and come with less hassle. But its not really about whether you date or just sleep around. I wanted to know what does the type of guy you date tend to look like. Most wolves can sleep with just about anything with a pulse so its important to be specific when wanting to know what your actual type is. There are plenty out there who are cute and have nice personalities. What explains your single-hood?
I like dudes with a nice body, he doesn’t have to be buff or anything like that, but if he’s skinny(like most dudes are including myself) he has to know how to carry himself. He has to be well groomed too, that’s always a plus for me. I like a dude who takes care of himself. I’m not trying to sound picky, but you know…
Those things are pretty default. Everyone says a slight variation of nice body, well groomed, put together, and so forth. I’m more concerned with physical types. So i guess my next question is who is your top 3 celebrity crushes (if you have any)?
1.Chris Brown
2. Brian White
3. Lance Gross
Is that how you like ’em? Real pretty by the face?
Yea… that’s how I like ’em Vain, it’s not only pretty, but it’s mainly also. That’s square jawline is a turn on, he got some pretty ass eyes too. I’ll beat that dude to pieces.
Interesting. Can you give other examples of what your type looks like?
I know this post is for the foxes, but that face, that face is so pretty, real talk. 🙂
He is a special type of beautiful… To the response above…your ugly is somebody’s beautiful.
He’s not cute to me.
^he is much better looking in person so I see his appeal in modeling.
He cute