so its official.
the news outlets have picked up the derrick gordon/gerald mccullouch love story.
the “25 years his senior” love story.
i mean finally.
the foxhole “been there;80-ish comments later” tho.
we get it first and then give the scraps to everyone else.
so gerald spoke to enews! about how “this” all came about.
no it wasn’t because of a hook up on grindr.
it actually started when derrick watched one of gerald’s movies,
bearcity,
and contacted gerald about it via twitter.
gerald had some more to say about it…
“Through the years I’ve encouraged him to lead an authentic life and tried my best to offer as much objective support as possible,” says the former CSI actor, who recently wrapped production on Daddy, his feature directorial debut, which he also stars in. The film just so happens to be about a fortysomething man who falls for a much younger guy.“It was a scary time for him,” McCullouch recalls, “and I tried my best to assure him that self-acceptance wasn’t anything to be ashamed of and I strongly suggested he find a support team at UMass.”
and how this “ship” started having relations:
“There is certainly a spark between Derrick and me,” the actor says. “I’m very proud of him and think he’s an engaging, courageous, and handsome young man.”
…okay so i’m just going to ask.
are you trying to sell this “daddy” movie gerald?
it seems like derrick would be the right connection to help boost viewership to this movie.
naive pre baller wolf comes out closet and instant “talk”
horny old snow fox who needs much needed publicity
attention whoring 101
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gerald did only have a couple followers on his instagram before “this”.
well whatever the case maybe,
and its only my opinion,
it seems like they maybe happy so i won’t judge.
okay i’ll judge just a little.
let’s see if they can go for 6 months before we break out the bubbly.
lowkey: i guess we can’t judge the age.
a lot of the older foxes love the back breakin pipe from a young wolf.
look at the vixens.
well wait…
none of those relationships lasted so…
err.
quote found: enews!
I just read that Don Lemon is twenty years older than his boyfriend.Don just turned 48, his boyfriend a CNN producer is 28.He was 23 or 24 when they started dating.I also read that Don’s ex boyfriend when he worked in Chicago was Black .Back to my point if Derrick met Don ( who is older than Gerald) the same way he met Gerald would people have a problem with them dating. Is it the fact that Gerald is 47, the fact that he is White , the fact that he looks 67 or the combination of all 3.
Personally my issue is the age difference they are in two different stages of life, different generations.I agree with @ Jay , Gerald was a mentor, or uncle figure.You dont date your mentee.
Y Colette. ..This is bold manipulation, coersion..As a Psychologist, I can tell you this is simple coersion. unethical to the bone.
McCullouch, 47, tells that they first connected via Twitter a few years ago after Gordon saw McCullouch in the indie film BearCity, about a tight-knit pack of gay friends navigating life and love in New York.
“Through the years I’ve encouraged him to lead an authentic life and tried my best to offer as much objective support as possible,” says the former CSI actor, who recently wrapped production on Daddy, his feature directorial debut, which he also stars in. The film just so happens to be about a forty something man who falls for a much younger guy.
“It was a scary time for him,” McCullouch recalls, “and I tried my best to assure him that self-acceptance wasn’t anything to be ashamed of and I strongly suggested he find a support team at UMass.”
Ultimately, Gordon heeded that advice and chose to come out to his teammates in late March/early April. He told ESPN in a subsequent interview that being out in the open was “an indescribable feeling.”
McCullouch says that he and Gordon finally met in person last month, after the athlete had come out to his family.
“There is certainly a spark between Derrick and me,” the actor says. “I’m very proud of him and think he’s an engaging, courageous, and handsome young man.”
If Don was dating Derrick it wouldn’t be a problem because Don look wonderful for his age and is an attractive man with a good body. Yea you’re right Gerald looks 100x older and I can tell his body is shit, and he is a selfish man because he’s old and for him to look older than Don means he’s very lazy.
I think the people here are not bother by the fact it’s a black man dating a white guy, it’s an old white guy dating a young black man because it seem like any kind of white whether fat, ugly, retard, racist (Sterling), and old can have us black people anytime they want and can dispose us. That not fair!
So it okay for white people to be choosy and can pick the handsome black men while they can look like shit, but in the meanwhile it not okay for a black man to have option? This shit piss me off. I guess this is why I started working out and made myself more attractive because I want a black man to know he can have a beautiful person in his life and don’t have to settle for some garbage. And the fact that I am a good-looking Puerto Rican is an A+++ because usually the ugly ones are attracted to black men.
Huh? O_o what do you mean black men have no options? And when you say settle for garbage do you mean only looks? Cause I can call a spade a spade I’m a 2 out of 10 my face is a fool.com sooooooooo like does this logic apply to me as well black men should avoid me (garbage) cause they are settling for less and go for you? All cause of physical appearance?
I’m talking about white garbage.
Let cut the bull and widen our eyes.
The only time white men are only interested in black men is when they are old, mentally ill, fat, drug addicts, and even ugly ass racist, and they all manage to have good-looking brothas. But switch the roles, a white dude would never ever date a black men like that. I’m just saying. All I’m trying to say is to date someone who is your equal. What I mean by that? If you’re ugly then date someone who is ugly too, no matter the skin color.
I gues your right cause personalities don’t matter in this day and age
Well good for them…. Why is everybody surprised tho??? I mean ya boi older but y’all knew he was gona get scooped up by a white walker. I’m more surprised the old dude ain’t go for Michael Sam
The more I think about this the more it creeps me. As a Psychotherapist this sounds like a case of violation of trust. That old perv. Probably used this young man to create a fantasy . Now he has a movie coming out called “daddy” I can’t imagine what this guy’s parents are feeling. Who is this old FKR to tell this young man about about how to come out. Sounds like coercion To me….
Yes, you mention this to me the other night.
Michael Sam have sense.
Gerald McCullouch @ItsAHardG
Oh the gossip cycle. But proud of both @DaddyTheMovie as well as @flash2gordon so let it roll.
love that game of thrones reference.lol
I’ll judge fuck that. What could a 22 year old from the hood of NJ have in common with a 47 year old white man. Beyond that how is it that he was so uncomfortable up until a month ago with disclosing his sexuality, but now is all out and about and in love with this man. Gerald said they met on twitter years ago but did not even meet in person until a month ago.
Gerald probably showed genuine care and support for ya boy which its clear he desperately needed, I understand that. Also Gerald has probably showed ya boy a world he has never seen before. A world of acceptance but also affluence and accessibility. In these kind of situations its easy for someone who is green to confuse admiration with other feelings. Gerald being the elder should have never entertained anything romantic and should have understood this dude is young as hell and new to this shit. However realistically we all know these rich old men wouldn’t pass a chance to bed a young hot black athlete.
Don’t be surprised to see droves of old white wealthy gay geriatric mothafuckas runnin to the hood nah. Im sorry that was mean.
His big black cock. I hate saying that, but the truth because white men only see black men are a sex object. Very rarely you will find a white guy who love a black man for his personality and not his skin.
Something about this is troubling to me. Am I to understand that the daddy, mentor used this relationship and crossed the line to engage this 22 year old into a romantic relationship. This is unethical as far as I am concerned. This to me is like a big brother meeting a child and over time becomes engaged in a relationship..that is totally unethical. Like I said before, if Derrick was my son 22 or not that man would have some SPLAiNIN to do…totally creepy, like that man Woody whatever his name having a relationship with his daughter.
Jeff Jackson @TheCoachJeff
@flash2gordon so he not your BF
Derrick Gordon@flash2gordon
@TheCoachJeff yea he is
Jeff Jackson @TheCoachJeff
@flash2gordon well ok then it really is not gossip. Just be you. They are going to try to make something out of everything you do. just Win
Derrick Gordon @flash2gordon
@JaNKoBot loveislove and I couldn’t be any happier being with him….
Babe you jus caught up in the hype of life , became god blesss
Have you guys ever notice when white people who are mentally ill, old, ugly, and fat they always prefer to be with black men, especially with the good-looking ones.
I have noticed that. OMG.
No comment.
I second that.
Can anyone also consider that they are not at that stage of their relationship yet?
I really think Gerald is just dickmatized and maybe Derrick needed that older man to offer support. I don’t like to judge. I’m 23 and there have been guys 10-15 years older than me that I’ve talked to. The maturity of an older man can be very seductive. BUT….this whole relationship coming out around the same time as his movie just seems too convenient. I mean…Gerald is cheesing from ear to ear, and Derrick just looks a little uncomfortable to me. IDK. But its nice that he helped Derrick accept himself.
^facts!
i see that lowkey promoting on his twitter.
gerald aint low.
getting some black meat and potential views.
not even mad.
oh and the movie “daddy” is about…
well just guess.
LMAO…You all think Gerald is getting banged out by Derrick? *giggles* Guess again. This man is banging Derrick. I’ll put money on it lol. *takes out 20 bucks*
If they are in love, all I can do is wish them the best man.
You know I really didn’t think about that, but could be true. I guess the stereotype (enforced by porn) is that the white guy is the bottom and the athletic black “stud” is the top. But it could be the reverse. If that’s the case, Gerald must have the “Daddy” dick for real lol
Derrick is bottom and taking some dick , but he is a true top and a true 9inch . he young and new to sex , but wonderful person