one thing i’ve learned in life,
especially as a blogger:

Everyone will not agree with what I have to say/font.
I can’t entirely agree with what others say/font either.
That is perfectly fine.

brandon lee aka @brandeness is getting the dragging of his life.
a foxholer sent me the following while on my day off.
this is what he had to say about his choice to not date poz males…

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everyone has an opinion of what’s gay and what’s straight.
i know for me,
i struggled with that when i was dealing with my sexuality.

Should I move my arms when I walk or should I keep them in my pockets?
Should I listen to males or vixens singing?
Should I deepen my voice or speak in my regular tone?
Should I befriend vixens or try to seek out male friendships?
Should I go to the gay club and risk being seen and humiliated?
Should I hang with him because he is feminine or will that make me guilty by association?

bad enough,
every decision i made was because i didn’t want to be judged.
i was judged,
picked apart,
and given years of trauma from family and peers.
i was exhausted and recently started to accept all of myself.
saucy santana thinks straight wolves shouldn’t smoke hookah.
why?
he thinks it’s feminine and only gays should be smoking hookah…

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celebs and influencers can’t really trust people on social media.
these folks have you on a higher pedestal than themselves.
stan bases are just circlejerks fawning over the image and not the person.
i don’t know why these folks with platforms do this.
a majority of these so-called “stans” are yes people.
many of them don’t care about their well-being.

They care about you entertaining them…

…but when you end up looking like a clown,
and the circus becomes too much to handle,
they’ll quietly move on to the next.
there is no reason why anyone could think this is “quirky” behavior…

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am i the only one who finds sam smith so unappealing these days?
i don’t have an issue with them expressing themselves but…

I hate how they chooses to express themselves in this era.

is azealia banks is the broken clock that is right twice a day?
she said this in her ig stories…

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the straights have interesting ideas of what gay males are like.
many of them associate being gay with stereotypes they see in the media.

We are all feminine,
wearing dresses,
and twirling around while listening to early Beyonce.

…and for some,
that might be true and thats totally fine.
attentionisto,
cleiton lobo,
did a skit a foxholer sent to me.
a vixen,
in a skit,
asked him if he would be gay for an hour to get 1 billi...

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i’m not the biggest chelsea handler fan but Jesus Christ.
there are some people who do not want kids.
its a personal choice because they don’t desire to be parents.
that is totally fine and a personal decision.
chelsea handler made this video:

Just another day. pic.twitter.com/Bf4cdBqunG

— Chelsea Handler (@chelseahandler) February 10, 2023

why does this sound like the day as a gay male?
the angry white jackals decided to eat her alive tho…

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