dating in 2021 is really interesting.
it’s interesting for both straights and gays.
tbh:

Straight males are “dating” like gay males.

i loveeeeeeeeee when the straights think they are so different from us.
why?
because gay males are getting fucked in the sacred “ass”?
straight males fuck vixens in their asses.
some straight males love getting their butt cheeks munched during head.
because some gay males are feminine?
some straight males are feminine and don’t even realize it.
because some gay males are masculine?
some gay males are more masculine and alpha than straight males.
what are even talking about?

Both communities are horny,
frustrated,
and want to waste folk’s time out here.

a vix-bi sent me this video about what straight males are experiencing while dating.
if you look closely tho,
it could be the dating woes in gay dating too…

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besides tiktok and vine,
i’ve been on pretty much every social media.
some hit; others didn’t.
my social media experience goes like this:

If I want you to see something,
I will.
If I don’t,
you won’t.

i’m pretty open on my social media platforms.
you see how transparent i am on the foxhole.
i’ve never used the “close friends” feature because,
oh,
i dunno:

My close friends are in real life and have my phone number.

twitter is coming out with an interesting new feature like all the others…

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today,
as i was scrolling up my notification center,
^that news article had just popped up.
i couldn’t watch it because it’s on apple news+,
but i was absolutely annoyed with the title.

“It’s Time To Talk About Black-Asian Solidarity”

what?…

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foxhole…
you ever had a toxic boss that didn’t operate on empathy and compassion?
i know of a boss who made his assistant go into the office during a snow storm.
he was home,
we were home,
but she was troopin’ through high winds and snow banks to go to an office.
she was in her late 60s doing that shit too.
he was white,
gay,
and abusive af to her.
oftentimes,
she would run past my desk in tears over the awful treatment.
i heard of a boss who didn’t want an employee to attend the funeral of a loved one.
the boss was quoted as asking:

“How close were you to them?”

i can only imagine what it’s like to work under trump’s ass.
well as a boss,
he done exposed his whole secret service to the rona with his toxic behavior.
this is what a foxholer sent me via “yahoo news“…

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motown.
when i think of motown,
i think of black soul.
a time when artists stood on a stage and sung.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vc_SDlPMGDA

they might have had background dancers,
doing one or two hand motions,
but it was all bout the voice.
motown reminds me of a happy time in my life.
when my parents were alive,
they would play those classics while cleaning or going somewhere in the car.
i often listen to the music to invoke those memories.
so when i heard jennifer lopez was performing a motown tribute at the grammys,
i knew it would NOT go well.
it didn’t…

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i’ve been wondering as of late…

Are people fuckin CLUELESS these days?

people don’t think before they speak/act/or move it past production.
it’s mind blowing the amount of ignorance these days.
i meaaannnn….

so fashion house,
“gucci”,
is suffering from the latter.
so a sweater they were selling had black folks all kinds of offended.
it allegedly resembled blackface…
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