i don’t know about you but my soul has been struggling.
for the last 2 years,
it has been a constant reminder of where we are.

Adapting post-Rona and all that is (some of us who lost loved ones)
How the lockdown sent some of us into legit madness
The surge in violence
Our government is on something other than the beaten path
Inflation killing our wallets
Food shortages and a potential recession
Worry about what the future will hold for all of us

we are dealing with a lot right now.
people are trying to find their happiness again.
here comes the resurgence of house and dance records.
i liked drake‘s effort as he experimented with his dance record.
beyonce and her new song,
break my soul,
tho…

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i’ll never forget an incident as an 8-year-old in  barbados.
one of my father’s friends commented i was “soft“.
it really hurt my feelings and of course,
he blamed it on being raised by my grandmother and mother.
when i told him how it made me feel when we reconnected,
and how he never defended me at that moment,
he legit brushed it off but told me how hurt he was that i was gay.
the same father that said he didn’t want to call my phone because:

“I didn’t want the man you might be with to beat you up because another man was calling you.”

If only we could have fathers like Judge Mathis

he has a new show on e! called mathis family matters.
when you watch stuff like this with his son,
greg mathis jr…

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it’s good to see mo’nique getting her shit together.
she saw all her “sweet babies” coming in her comments with the torches.

she had to pull it together quickly.
mo’nique decided to drag dl hughley publicly,
along with bringing his family into it,
so she apologized publicly…

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people are scared to experiment.
males who want to experiment with males are a perfect example of this.
they have been dating vixens for so long,
why try something that may change their world?
why introduce something new when this life already works?
or does it?
many of us are set in our ways because things are working.
even if it’s not,
we don’t want to switch it up because of many things:

Rejection
Scared to Fail
Embarrassment by Those Who May Drag Us

i was hype when drake announced he was coming out with a new album.

HONESTLY, NEVERMIND
(The Album) Tonight at midnight @Drake pic.twitter.com/nlo8ypAf1W

— OVO Sound (@OVOSound) June 16, 2022

certified lover boy was mid for many of his fans.
i woke up today and before i could wipe the crust out of my eyes,
i had the album up on spotify.
wow…

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i’ve always been a fan of tank and his music.
he is a major talent for singing and writing for other artists too.
i bought his first album and was into it heavy.
this is my favorite tank song EVER:

it did help he brought a nicely wrapped meaty package with his music.

Sidebar: For my birthday years ago,
I really wanted his second album,
“One Man”.
This chick that was once a friend bought me THE BOOTLEG CD.
Like,
from Chinatown.
I was SO MAD because I would have never bought her a bootleg.
Dumbass.

anyhoo…
earlier this year,
i was listening to tank‘s music on a swivel.
i was into “sex love and pain part 2” HEAVVVVVVYYYYYY.
tank had a recent interview with “drink champs“,
which is hosted by norega and dj efn.
he was asked about him performing for gay pride events…

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there is still no doubt that charlie lynch isn’t handsome af.
one thing i LOVE is he doesn’t skip leg day.
he is stacked on top and bottom.

even though charlie’s role on love island was pretty terrible,
it seems to have gotten him to open up.
remember when he was a mystery “that photographer” introduced us to?
that has changed these 2022 days…

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