we all have insecurities,
especially when it comes to dating.
with all the good there might be a shit ton of bad.
i see some relationships i know and i’m like:

Why is this even a thing?

it’s funny how i use to desire to be in a relationship so bad,
but i’ve realized it stemmed from my insecurities.
some males can flawlessly pull the insecurities out of you.
i had jd aka @danotorious1jd,
one of my amazing foxholers,
come on the podcast to have a conversation with us…

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i’ve known my bff,
pose,
since 2002.
we actually met through someone else and became tight.
i watched pose go from working at the “toys r us” in times square to a multifaceted business vixen.
i’m so proud of her and it was a no brainer she would make an appearance on my podcast.
 last weekend,
she was joined with her other half,
“rich auntie” from their own podcast,
“non-corporate girls“.
we had a discussion about working a 9 to 5,
juggling a 5 to 9,
and everything in-between…

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the holidays are a tough time for many of us.
this year,
during the wonderful world of the rona,
it took seasonal depression into overdrive.
confession:

I’m going through one of the worst seasonal depressions ever.

i’ve literally been dragging my paws on many things.
ask me when i’m watching “the undoing” rather than sleeping in?

when i started the podcast,
i always wanted to make sure we could have good fox talk about issues like this.
well…

I had my first foxholer on the podcast as a guest last week!

blue,
who has been following me since ’09,
was the first to grace the foxhole podcast about this rona-rific holiday season…

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ever since my cousin hybrid joined the podcast,
it has been jokes and great conversation.
this week’s discussion was so on point,
one of my close friends testified and got emotional over it.
we tackled “needs vs wants“.
( x listen on your favorite podcast player here )
well this week,
 i have a request for a topic and need a potential guest(s)…

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if it ain’t one thing…?
one of my favorite things to do is (was?) update my ig stories.
i loved speaking to the foxhole in dms and having intimate conversations.
i woke up today,
posted my usual,
but when i went back to post an IG story…

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season 2; season 1 is up of insidejamarifox: the podcast is up.
“oh hi, so we’re back again”.
allllllllllllllll links below…

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