we meet straight males daily.
some are super uncomfortable with even being next to us.
they feel “the gay” will rub off on them like their parents said it would.
a small few hang with us because they are curious.
i mean,
can we talk?
they pick us because we make them feel most comfortable to experiment.
the rest are my favorites.
110% straight
don’t give a fuck
look at you like a brother
the dynamic works because of the whole “straight and gay” difference.
they treat you better than they do their wolf pack.
sometimes the vixen.
you know what really grinds my gears tho?…
When idiots think you’re both fuckin’ each other
the ones who will go spread rumors about you both.
like,
why is this?
so two males,
one gay and one straight,
can’t be genuinely cool?
are gays these sexualized creatures that have to fuck everyone?
it’s so funny when vixens are the ones behind the slander tho.
they stay claiming they can be platonic with a straight male without any sex.
yet,
when rumors start that they are fuckin’ said straight male,
these same vixens want to catch an attitude and be offended.
How do you think we feel when we are stereotyped in that way?
that keeps most straight males uncomfortable and homophobic with us.
personally,
i know/knew a lot of straight wolves that weren’t/aren’t checking for me like that.
i went out with one the other day and we had a great time.
i didn’t even see him as “straight”.
i saw him as “a friend”.
friendship is usually what i crave more than anything else.
do you hold on to the last time you got fucked/sucked really good…
…Or the last time you went hung with someone and had a really fuckin’ good time?
chances are,
you aren’t still fuckin’ that random who gave you the good sex.
the memories of that trip/outing/dinner with your friend still last tho.
in my life/blogging career,
there are many straight wolves i will come i contact with.
a few will genuinely help me with my career.
that don’t mean we gonna be fuckin’.
even if that went down,
one would never know.
are they even “straight” anyway?
i’m always down to meeting cool people.
i don’t turn anyone away unless you are a jackal or hyena.
it’s sad there are so many stipulations with gay/straight male friendships.
i think every straight wolves should have a good gay friend.
tbh I have had straight friends that stopped talking to me because they didn’t like being judged by others. I honestly would like to make friends w/ straight guys but soon as I hear anything related to “long as you don’t flirt w/ me we cool.” That’s usually what stops that.
Another note I hate the women who test their man to make sure he’s straight “you sure you want to hang w/ him I don’t want people thinking the wrong things about you babe.” stuff like that annoys me because I’m not trying to fuck your dude and if you scared that just because he’s not homophobic he will not be gay. I have a surprise for you about the homophobes.
No you’re not wrong , of course every situation is different. My ex wolf “friend” was very paranoid about being seen out with me in certain places. If we were downtown or in the “white parts” (his words) of the city he had no problem being seen with me but if we were in more urban areas or the mall he would get hella nervous and come up with an excuse to walk much further away from me. I know he didn’t want people questioning why he was hanging out with a gay guy. 😒 Whenever I brought it up to his attention and he will make it seem like I was being extra or something (as if I can’t read body language or vibes)
As long as both parties in their friendship comfortable with themselves there should be no issues. I have connected with lots straight guys over video games, music, anime (when I was into it), and even style. I’ve had a lot of them tell me that because there is a certain softness and upbeat nature to me they found it easier to share so many things about themselves with me that they would tell or show their boys.
^i love this.
i don’t know why everyone thinks gays are something less than.
we out here running shit and changing lives!
some of these common straights ain’t accomplishing half the shit we do.
they better realize it should be an honor to stand with us!