“There are people who are scared to speak to you again.
They know they treated you bad,
but you def have glo’d up and doing your thing now.
That can be intimidating to people.” – The Pretty Vixen

it’s similar to when we have an ex/ex-friend we know we fucked up with.
we see them looking good after us,
living their best life,
and we want to contact but we are scared too.
it’s the same with past friends/people who did us wrong.
kenya moore and vivica a. fox had beef after “the apprentice” in 2015.
you’d think they would never speak again.
kenya went on vivica’s show,
“cocktails with queens“,
and this is how it went down today…

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guys,
are we still talking about the will smith vs chris rock showdown?
i guess we still are.
okay,
cool.
so jada pinkett smith broke her silence about it on “red table talk”.

“we need them both”?
uh…
on yesterday’s “the (not) wendy williams show”,
aunt viv aka vivica a fox came to tears over jada’s statement…

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i’ve had plenty of girl crushes before.
i’m gay but still allowed to find vixen’s beautiful.
last night,
i realized something…

I had a huge crush on Vivica A. Fox when I was a kid.

i came to that conclusion when i saw viv do this recent tiktok “they call me” challenge…

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i love that a majority of the black actresses in hollywood are friends.
i reallllllllllly like that shit.
in such a tough and racist forest that hollywood can be,
it helps when you have a community behind you.

One of my dreams is to be in a community with all the black industry gays,
whether it is Hollywood or creatives.
No one in the circle should ever be broke or hungry.

aunt viv aka vivica a. fox and regina king are really tight.
if you google,
you’ll see many pictures of them together.
viv wanted to update us on how regina has been doing.
as you know,
her son ian took his own life last week.
this is what she had to say on “cocktails with queens“…

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this weekend,
one of my straight home wolves said an ignorant statement about gays.
he said:

“…in gay relationships,
you know there is the boy and the girl…”

i was like “what?” and he started to apologize profusely.
we have a mutual gay friend who gets offended about everything.
he thought i’d be the same.
i hit him with the…

“Dude,
it’s cool.
I don’t care but…”

…and then let him know its two males,
regardless of submission or dominance.
there is no “girl” because no one has a pussy and can get pregnant.
easy peasy.
i don’t want to be someone folks have to watch what they say around.
granted…

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i don’t ever want to meet a wolf like this.
well i think i nearly did.
nothing worst than someone getting into your head and have sprung af.
various reasons like:

his mind blowing sex
your loneliness
his mind games
your biological clock ticking
his way with words
your kind nature
his hot/cold attitude
your lack of self love/worth

…and then you’re wrapped up like a fox with an anaconda.
50 and vivica a. fox strike me as that type.
so aunt viv has a new book out called “everyday i’m hustling”.
in the book,
she has a whole chapter on her past relationship with 50.
this is what she had to tell “build series” about it…
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