insecurity makes us create stories as explanations.
when we are insecure about something,
we try to throw others off the scent with an elaborate tale.
it never worked because it always comes back to bite you in both cheeks.
your old tales have a way of catching up with your new ones.
when i was insecure about certain things,
i’d explain myself in a way that i thought would make me look good.
it brought more guilt down on my head.
the entry i wrote yesterday about being married/having kids led a foxholer to ask me this:
“Jamari, it would be great to create a post on how to respond to these unwelcomed dating inquiries and hear how others would respond.”
and i have just the response for everyone that works for me…
i was talking to karaoke today and i reminded her of something she told me:
“You have to learn to laugh at yourself.
If you don’t,
others will learn your triggers and use it against you.”
that came up as we were discussing chris evans.
after his alleged pipe leakage,
you’d think he would stay in bed until next summer.
he just responded about his scandal…
there is an issue when folks get too much fame.
they can become annoying af.
i guess the pretty hood vixens needed a role model so they elevated b simone.
i use to think she was so cute,
but she has started turning me off with her antics.
she recently got dragged for this interview she had with nick cannon.
she said her future wolf can’t have a 9-5:
Lmaoooooo I just want thoughts. & CEOs clock in & out, it’s just called a salary. pic.twitter.com/zvuNxy8hp5
— Shaad. (@DJShaadSmooth) June 8, 2020
i rolled my eyes so hard.
this was her response to the dragging…
when i use to go back and forth with mi,
i look back and realize how stupid it was.
she was a kid.
her brain wasn’t developed to understand where i was coming from.
it wasn’t until she hit rock bottom that she realized the error in her ways.
miss mamas decided to address the foxhole in a latest youtube video.
this is what he had to say…
i’m all about the mature response.
Lord knows i’ve written about some folks on the foxhole,
celebrity or not,
and they were full of attitude.
“psshtt! *neck and eye roll*” is all i can imagine when i’m reading their rebuttals.
sidebar: mostly from males of all orientations.
crazy part is,
i’m usually very open and objective within the conversation.
i’m honestly one of the nicer bloggers to hit up.
i’m never looking for the beef unless its 8 inches and has a good stroke.
so i spoke with @tc_illkillya today.
after yesterday’s entry,
he hit me up on the foxhole ig to explain his side and well…
Continue reading “a conversation with tc_illkillya about alleged scamming and beef”
that’s it trump…
walk into her trap…
so trump has finally opened his fingers to respond to omarosa.
you know he sends all his press releases to his personal twitter.
this is what he had to font about omarosa…
Continue reading “omarosa is that “dog” who is pooping on your shoe trump”