so i wanted to treat the foxhole today.
my foxy senses told me to do it,
but when karaoke randomly suggested it,
i knew it was a message from The Universe.
i wanted to treat the foxhole to a special podcast from me to you…

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i was listening to a podcast today from dr. thema.
it’s called “the homecoming podcast with dr. thema“.
she has many topics about self love and care,
but one topic i have been feeling recently is rejection.
nothing hurts the soul more than being rejected.

at the end of the podcast,
she assigned homework.

“What have you learned from the rejections?
What did it teach you about yourself?
What did it teach you about relationships?
What did it teach you about acceptance?”

well…

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so i’m so excited ya’ll.
i feel like things are starting to make sense again.
the upcoming podcast is shaping up to be something special.
karaoke and i had a long conversation about the outline and format today.
of course,
like the foxhole,
it’s going to be conversational opinion podcast.
for the first time in a while,
i found happiness in doing it.
of course,
i’m all for the foxhole getting involved.
so i have a question…

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foxhole…
i have something i want to share with you.
just between us.
ready?
come here…

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so i’ll be honest with you foxhole…

I completely forgot about Derrick Gordon

 you guys kept sending me this story,
but i was like “who?“.
it wasn’t until i realized that i wrote about him a long time ago.
he was the first pre-baller basketball wolf to come out.
during his coming out phase,
he decided to debut that he was dating an older white male:

…and that was the end of that.
matter fact,
all those black gay athletes who weren’t dating within their race are all mia.
in 2019,
derrick has a youtube channel called “derrick gordon“.
in a recent episode,
he had darren young as a special guest.
another one i wrote and forgot about.
darren is the first openly gay wrestler in the wwe.
this was his boyfriend cc: “people“:

they decided to defend their past dating choices and well…

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some people don’t realize what it’s like to lose a loved one.
imagine losing two parents?
when holidays or special occasions come around,
you can really feel their absence.
i’ve spent the last couple days on the couch,
crying randomly over this upcoming “mother’s day”.
some years it’s “i’m good”; other years can be tough.
this is a tough year.
so diddy is still grieving the loss of kim porter,
who died last year of pneumonia.
on the “yes girl!” podcast from “essence”,
diddy broke down while speaking about his first mother’s day without kim…
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