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dating is hard.
getting to know someone is hard.
it’s all hard.
you meet someone you’re interested in,
you talk for hours,
fuck for hours,
and then they just up and dip on you.
they could text you to ask if they can come through,
but they can’t use those same words to let you know they need a minute.
they can fuck a stranger they met raw,
but be scared to let you know they aren’t interested.
it’s really disrespectful,
but after watching “insecure” i had to wonder…

Are many people out here dating with severe mental health issues?

it was interesting to hear nathan and issa’s conversation…
Continue reading “he might have ghosted you because he’s mentally unwell” →

i use to think ghosting was meeting someone,
feeling their vibe,
enjoying their conversation,
maybe even the sexual part of it,
and then they suddenly vanishing on you.
calls and texts go unanswered.
no explanation whatsoever.
they just drop you like it never mattered.
to me,
that’s one of the most hurtful and cowardly things someone can do.
it wasn’t until i realized that i was a ghosting slut as well.
oof…

Continue reading “jamari fox is a ghosting slut too” →

i haven’t laughed this loud in a while.
i needed it.
tonight’s episode of insecure,
“high-like”,
was probably the best episode of the season.
the squad took the turn up to coachella and the antics tho…
it was pure shenanigans as only issa could bring.
i’m gonna give a few thoughts…

Continue reading “can we font about insecure “high-like” episode real quick?” →