Words can be powerful,
almost like spells,
and they hold weight in tragic moments like the following.

kelly rowland has a song called “stole“ that really resonates right now:

“His life was stole and we’ll never knowwww…”

that’s exactly how i felt upon hearing the heartbreaking news about saiveon hopkins,
known to many as jay hefner on only fans…

There’s something I really appreciate about white folks who actually get it.

you know,
as the “privileged” race,
it’s a breath of fresh air when they use their voices for good.
sadly,
so many of them either lack compassion or common sense,
running wild with narratives that serve no one but themselves.
so when i got sent an IG reel from white vixen about the mass shooting in georgia,
i had to brace myself but…

I couldn’t help but wonder…
Are we all just stuck in a never-ending hamster wheel of sexual stagnation?

sexually stagnant.
it’s something many of us deal with,
whether we admit it or not.
instead of seeing other males as potential friends,
or even partners,
many of us treat them like our next conquest.
many of us could get with someone with this bawdy,
who is perfect for us…

i was having having a conversation during the late night hours with one of my Foxholers,
who happens to have paid many of our favorite attentionistios for sex.
tbh,
the lives of the “gay for pay” attentionistos is interesting to me.

Straight males who put a fight but with the right amount,
will allow any male to play with their bodies for a couple hours.
Many of the ones who were annoyed with me for even posting them.

this particular Foxholer lets these attentionistos know up front that he WILL be topping them.
from the “straight” attentionistos he has topped,
especially the ones who have been homophobic AF on socials,
i had a question that continues to be on my mind…

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They say the past has a funny way of circling back.

well,
this is the kind of circling back i’m into!
i recently found myself on the receiving end of a very sexy blast from the past,
courtesy of one condoms!
picture this:
a big package,
filled to the brim with condoms and stickers…

Have you ever wondered if you’re really “good enough,”
or is that other black gay males aren’t good enough for you?

i love seeing conversations like ^this.
it reminds me i’m not alone and other black gay males feel the same.
it’s this lingering question of…

“Am I good enough to date or settle down with?”

or…