I have been hurt.
I have been done wrong.
I have been a victim.
I have been an enemy.
I have been many things on the downside of life.
But, for whatever reason, I try not  hold onto my past…. anymore.
I try to brush my shoulders off and keep on moving.
Even if something hurts me so bad.

When it comes to dating, I have had my share of hurts.
Hell, I am single now due to partly “giving up to focus on my career“.
It is the Wolves you want that can make you feel so ugly if you are not chosen.
Your low self esteem can beat you senseless…
But I had to wonder even after all the bullshit…

Is it wrong to still see the good in people?

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Lets do this!!

Question

hi jamari love your blog. i am sort of in a bad situation. i am 17 and in high school this guy i had a crush on i found out doesnt want to be around me because he thinks i am gay. he acted very standoffish and that kinda clued me in. it really hurt my feelings. i never tried to come onto him or do anything suspect. from the first time he met me, he acted weird. he would sigh or turn his eyes when i would come towards him. not to mention he hangs with a bunch of catty females who also talk about me. how do i get past this?  funny enough, people think he is gay also even though he is masculine and he hates gay people. i dont get it.

the picked on fox

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We talked about this a billion times.
Able bodied sexy Wolves who lay on their backs to live “the good life”.

But using their dicks instead.
Vixens and Foxes have been using their… situations… for years to get in better situations all the time.
But when Wolves does it, it is so “trifling” and “how could he??”.
But if he met an idiot…
And that idiot wanted to pay him for pipe and use him as arm candy…

Why knock his hustle?

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I like Wolves with an edge.

Ok let me cut the shit, I like Wolves who are fine.
Yeah a Fox wants to cum off the sight of you.

Maybe that is my downfall?
I know this sounds typical, but I do not like Wolves that look like I can break them in half.
Physically, mentally, and emotionally.
I tend to be attracted to what deems to be the “man’s man” (as with every Fox)
… and unfortunately, I have turned down so many damn Foxes, fems, and Nice Wolves.

I don’t get it.

A masculine Wolf of my dreams seems to be intimidated by the Fox that is me.
YET, I can seduce a queen, A Fox, a Vixen… or a nice Wolf I am not attracted too in 2.5 seconds.

I had to ask myself this morning:

Is it me?

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Rejection is a bitch, ain’t it?
ESPECIALLY from someone like this:

or even this:

You see the Wolf of your dreams and you must have him.
Why wouldn’t he want you? – you ask.
You are cute, have a great personality, and a smile that can light up the room.
Shit, fuck that, YOU ARE SEXY.
You are perfect.
So you think you have what it takes and go after your Wolf.

Only to get CURVED.

You play it off like you are good and that asshole didn’t know what he is missing.

Uh huh. Yeah. Shit.

Okay…

You think it is over, but it isn’t.
There is a lot more to come after that rejection.

How do you really react when you are rejected?

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Yeah.
You….

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