I was over @ QC Sex Chronicles,
getting my overdose on porn and other news (ok, just porn),
when I came across a convo that literally opened my eyes….
…while making me want to become a monk.
(on second thought, I digress.)
But check this out and draw your own conclusions.
The below conversation really took me for a loop! This guy just hit me up to ask me this question considering I produce bareback porn. Now Im not hating on anyone nor did I post this to embarrass or bring a negative lite on my brothers who have found themselves to be HIV Positive. What I am saying is that we as a people need to be educated, and re-evaluate what is important. PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE offer your comments. This is the conversation as it happened. Let me know ure thoughts!
HIM
i got a ? man im mostly a top so fukkin raw im pretty much good i mean ive been burnt a few times but been pretty good in terms of not gettin hiv…u know how its less risky for a top but i want to try btming…but how can i prevent from gettin it without knowing when i fukk dudes raw as i do as a top….just askin advice man
Black Rayne Productions
how can u prevent from getting it? – SIMPLE – USE A CONDOM!!!
Black Rayne Productions
thas the only way
Black Rayne Productions
i mean our models are tested before we shoot with them.
Black Rayne Productions
its a risk either way
HIM
i know use a condom man lol but i dont like to i was just askin man thats all
Black Rayne Productions
no i was just answering, there is no other way to NOT get HIV if that is a concern and rightfully should be. Either that or quit fuckin period!!
Black Rayne Productions
i mean seriously im being honest
HIM
i feel u man i want to stay neg but i like to freek raw
HIM
ure right tho
Black Rayne Productions
but i have a question for you
HIM
yea go ahead
Black Rayne Productions
so u said its harder for tops to get hiv…how is that so n how did u come up with that conclusion
HIM
because no one is nuttin in u or nothing is transferred to u in terms of bodily fluids as easily as it is for the btm when u nut in him
Black Rayne Productions
is that right
Black Rayne Productions
but what about the transfer of their bodily fluid and secretions it can still go into the penis
HIM
or so i thought or do u know something i dont lol
Black Rayne Productions
when u do nutt, even if u dont nutt there is precum…possible abrasions in their anal cavity that you cant see, blood
Black Rayne Productions
cuts on your penis so small u cant see, even things like hepatitis from having anal sex when fecal residue is mixed with bodily fluids. I mean ma dude, u need to do some homework.
HIM
true that is tru but im just saying the chances are less lightly altho it can happen
Black Rayne Productions
hmm…ok…kool
Black Rayne Productions
just curious
HIM
ure right tho yea when u enter it deep u do open up other “parts” where blood can enter ure right man
HIM
thats y sometimes theres a part of me that wants to be poz so i dont have to worry about it but then on the other hand i dont know if i wanna deal with it
Black Rayne Productions
WHAT THE FUCK!!! ud risk being positive for a 2 min orgasm ma dude?
HIM
no not sayin that im saying for the long term…its not likely that im gonna find a partner who will like to do it raw and we stay monogamous for a long time…so sex partnas is whats its gonna be and i like it raw
Black Rayne Productions
well my dude, ure on the wrong track, cause most couples fuck raw but thats not even the point…im shocked, ive never heard a person say they want to be positive jsut so they can fuck raw…im at a loss for words…
Black Rayne Productions
and then to think that u mentiuoned earlier about having sex raw without other people knowing youre status, thats like a weapon in the hand of a child ma dude
HIM
no i dont mean i wanna be man im just sayin sometimes i think it would be easier bc i wouldnt have to worry about it……..but as far as i know im neg the last time i tested i was…i dont fukk that much…but like u said with random peeps if they let u fukk them raw and buss in them they prob already r
HIM
i mean the last dude i fukked he said he was neg and im neg so we fukked raw and i bussed in him i mean he wanted it and i wanted to do it and we knew the risk
Black Rayne Productions
well…i guess thats ure life and his…so good luck with that and btw RIP!
Firstly, Black Rayne does not EVER test their models, I know this from experience. So before y’all jump down dude’s throat for being uneducated, you also need to make sure you pay attention to the lies being told by Que.
Thank you to all those who left comments. I do not have to worry about you. (wink).
Now u know! U know i just dont have no words for this foolishness! I read this at QC blog after getting an email with the link about it. Just ……ugh….just…..chile….somebody give me a baseball bat and his address!
i read this a while back, & was shock & appalled. i cnt believe ppl like this exist in 2009. its sick & disgusting bt at the same tym he def needs 2 b educated b4 its too late. me & a female fren of mind hadda convo abt this & the heffa said “ima fck him cuz thts my man & love him even tho we dnt go together” seriously. & she was dead serious when she said it. i jst dnt understand.
This is why I am on hiatus from dealing with the dick. You can’t trust anybody. Somebody is always trying to get it with no condom, break the condom, or slip it off in the dark. D!@# is good but it ain’t worth dying for.
Everybody knows to wear a condom. This is America. Either negros think they are immune or they are on some “destroy you” type $#it. I am going almost 2 yrs with no d!ck and it is driving me crazy. However, i live in NYC. You can’t trust anybody(white or black) because white men will try to get you too(don’t believe all the statistics about us).
Maddy, I want to thank you for this reply and welcome you to my blog. I feel you HEAVY on this. Shit right now is so sketchy. That convo not only scared me, but frustrated me at the same time. I had a guy try to slip the condom off. I nearly knocked him upside his head. People are careless these days and do not care about YOUR safety especially when they have nothing to lose.
Yes! Its true. Its the wild wild west out there now, every “negro” for himself. In February, I was chilling with somebody and he told me he can’t stay hard in the condom. His profile(A4A) said safe sex. He said this mess: “I can make you feel good.” In my head, I’m like,”yeah, so can a sausage, egg and cheese MrGriddle, too.”
There are so many people that get caught out there with the dumb stuff. Even though I’m sure we all would like get some good stuff, we can’t take no man seriously. The ones with all the style and “swag” in the world can easily give you that Combination(AIDS, syphilis, Hep ABCD…,herpes, all of the above, etc.)…That one goes out to all those teenagers and young boys fresh out the box.
Oh and Thanks for having me, Mr. Fox, I really enjoy your blog.
I totally agree and you are very welcome. I appreciate your voice because you know exactly what I speak of.
OMG…like seriously? Nahhh this didn’t really happen. I don’t even know what to say…dude sounds uneducated
BTW I love your blog!
OMG…like seriously? Nahhh this didn’t really happen. I don’t even know what to say…dude sounds uneducated