you know i can spot a fine wolf a mile away.
if it isn’t the back of his head then it’s the way how he walks.
i’m like a “fine pineapple whisperer“.
i’m watching the inuaguration of biden/harris and ^that white wolf randomly popped up in the crowd.
our eyes locked and…

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foxhole,
i cannot stop thinking about “the undoing” on hbo max.
it has literally been living rent-free in my head since i watched it last week.
that’s the type of tv programming that i like.
i love shit that fucks with my head.
the thing about the show is…

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“sex and the city” was a cultural phenomenon.
vixens and gay males loved tf outta that show.
that show had white vixens from wisconsin moving to new yawk,
living in shoeboxes,
just to wear labels and fuck randoms they met in clubs.
i feel like that’s where all the gentrification came from too.
even some black vixens moved here to live their “sex and the city” experience.
hell,
the show inspired me to font about my love and sex life like carrie bradshaw in her iconic columns.

“I had to wonder…”

at the time,
there wasn’t a show where it showed new yawk in the light in which it did.
it showed this city in a glamourous way,
all while highlighting the drama of sex and trying to find a “mr. big” in this big city.
when i watch now,
carrie and mr. big was toxic af.
samantha jones,
who was my favorite,
is the “sex” in “sex and the city”.
 sarah jessica parker,
who played the iconic character of “carrie bradshaw”,
surprised us with the trailer for the reboot on “hbo max” but…

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the pretty vixen is convinced he is gay.
many folks are starting to whisper about the first black bachelor on abc,
matt james.
( x read more about him here )
i don’t like calling folks gay without solid evidence,
but i can see a really interesting bromance between tyler cameron and him.

a foxholer sent me a youtube video questioning matt and tyler’s sexuality…

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you know my stance on this topic.

People are hard on males exploring their sexuality.

of course,
vixens can’t handle it.
no one was talking shit when half of them were eating pussy in college.
this judgmental attitude,
even with gay and bi males as friends,
is why males will continue to be on the dl.
andre marhold,
for the first time in history,
said something i actually agree with.
he had an interview with jason lee of “hollywood unlocked” and the question was:

Should sexually fluid men notify women that they’ve been with other men?

and this was his answer…

trade.
according to “urban dictionary“,
the top definition is:

“A young hyper-masculine looking gay man, usually black or latino in urban contexts. Trade typically dress in urban clothing and play to the thug stereotype. The term “trade” originated from the notion that these men were only gay for pay– thus they would “trade” sex for money. In recent years, the term has come to refer to any gay men of color who dress in hip-hop inspired clothing and play into the masc fetish.”

x see the many other definitions

trade usually means a “wolf” (top) within the gay community.
trade can be any age,
but it mostly means a male who is on the dl.
i felt like fine ass “darius” on pose would be “trade”:

“urbanflixtv” decided to make a movie about trade.
it’s called “trade“.
clever!
this is the trailer…

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