I couldn’t help but wonder:
When we find ourselves in the midst of a huge scandal,
where our reputations are really on the line,
is silence truly golden?

when lightweight drama hits,
like cheating or “someone got offended by something” scandals,
one of the best things you can do is shut up and let the storm pass.
people will always create their own narratives.
when accusations get serious tho,
it’s a different game altogether.
those need to be addressed immediately before they spiral out of control.
take the recent mess with castro,
jacobi,
and his manz dem.
it turned into a forest fire in about 2.5 seconds.
(x you can peep the background here)
well,
jacobi finally got castro to explain the situation and…

I couldn’t help but wonder:
How far are you willing to go for revenge?

last night,
i watched a movie that blew me away.
randomly,
there was an ad about it that peaked my interest.
when i watched,
it raised my anxiety in the best possible way.
even today,
i can’t stop thinking about it.
it’s called “femme“,
and it stars george mackay and nathan stewart-jarrett,
and the premise is something many of us Foxholers understand all too well…

Everyone loves to play the asshole until shit happens.

a Foxholer once told me:

“You can be any kind of person,
but if you are kind,
people will stick by your side if you fall from grace.”

in my journey through the concrete forests of life,
this nugget of wisdom has surely has been many of my experiences.
sure,
kindness has sometimes led my spirit to be bruised and battered,
but more often than not,
it’s circled back to me in the most unexpected and beautiful ways.
people have remembered my kindness and did anything to help me.
the jackals who hurt me?
i watched them burn every bridge to be trapped on their own islands they created.
just yesterday,
i stumbled upon something that made me roll my eyes…

america is in this really weird place that when shit is about to go down,
especially when white folks are involved,
we assume that their privilege will protect them.
i assumed trump would be found not guilty and he’d be on his merry way.
i didn’t see this on my bingo card,
well i didn’t have a bingo card for this,
but this verdict…

Do people know what a victim is?

…or so they think everyone should operate the same?
we are all psychopaths who lack emotions?
i’ve been seeing some pretty gross things in regards to cassie.
i saw someone font she had enough time to run down the stairs.
others claim she was a gold digger but my follow up question is:

Regardless if someone was a gold digger or not,
do they deserve to be beaten for many years by someone who claimed to love them?

did they deserve drugged and raped?
to be kicked and dragged while not fighting back?
this is the same hyena that blew up a rapping wolf’s car.
we,
the public,
didn’t even know.
i didn’t think cassie would ever speak out but she did today…

we live in an age where getting older means getting better,
and let’s be honest,
some males just age like fine wine.

Take Tank aka Durrell Babbs,
for example.
At 48,
he’s looks better than he did when he first debuted on the scene.

mature ‘n’ fine tank always been aging well,
but the way he has been lookin’ on the r&b money tour…