the Foxhole is known for fonting about sexy males,
sex,
and piping hot tea on occasion.
we have a good time in this neck of the woods.

My bread and butter has always been sharing my struggles and trauma.

that is usually what i get messages about.
i’ve gotten messages from Foxholers in countries where they can’t be themselves.
those folks have lived vicariously and found their healing through my words.
so it’s not a shocker when i strip naked with you.

Last night in therapy,
we had to do an exercise about forgiveness.
It is on the road map to healing.

i wrote my limiting beliefs that i wanted to share.
it’s something i was gonna keep private but i wanted The Foxhole to see it.
it could help someone else…

i was posed with a thought after an intense therapy session today,
and even seeing clips of this mo’nique interview on club shay shay…

Who knew Megan Thee Stallion would shake up the start of 2024?

who knew the words,
“megan’s law“,
would create such controversy?
richard kanka,
the father of megan kanka that was killed by a sexual predator,
is behind this lawsuit against megan.
per tmz…

the following gives a new meaning to the late bernie mac‘s joke on the kings of comedy:

“Let me get some milk and cookies”

regardless of calling each other girls all day,
gay males are still males at the end of the day.
straights love to think they different but we have the same wiring.
this comment made sense to me:

the straights can’t say certain things to some gays without the 90s porn music going off,
especially this…

this morning,
i was texting with my lil big sis and she fonted something that blew me away.
it was one of those oprah “a-ha” moments you get on random.
funny enough,
it was also about oprah too.
we were talking about the color purple,
taraji,
and all the bts drama that’s being alleged.

“I’m not ready to take her off my don’t like don’t want to meet list I mean she’s Oprah.
I’ll meet her but be clear I’m getting one side of Oprah and to take it with a grain of salt.”

that was my “a-ha” moment…

so i’ve tried to get into pink friday 2 since it’s release but i don’t like it.
i know,
i’m sorry but i can’t get into it.
it’s kinda boring to me.
it wasn’t what i was expecting either.
i was expecting the same hunger as the original pink friday.
everyone wants to talk about her age at a very young 41.
beyonce is the same age as her.
like,
folks can’t go away to die because they are older.
this is when you have “no more fucks” and more experience.
it’s not about age for me tbh…