we never talk about grieving enough.
when you hear the word “grieve”,
you think it comes from mourning the death of a loved one.

“I grieved the loss of Star Fox.”

…but we don’t actually realize that we can grieve a living person.
we grieve the loss of people who are still alive in many different ways.
i’m grieving today…

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sometimes,
when i go on social media,
i often realize many people are stupid af.
they spread opinions and biases that some folks follow as facts.
no one does their research but acts like lemmings on a cliff.

in my life,
when i feel like shit is hitting the fan,
i have also been prone to following my own opinions or bias.
in therapy,
my therapist will stop me and ask…

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when we are going through it,
everyone else looks shiny and new.
you’re home; they’re out
you’re broke, they’re buying versace
you’re single; they’re riding the d train to countless orgasms
usually when this is happening,
we are in an emotional desert and our minds are playing tricks on us.
every single time that i look at others and feel sudden insecurities,
like i’m missing out or my life really sucks compared to,
they end up telling me how…

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i always said marriage is a business.
when you marry for love,
thats when it all goes down the drain.

When you get married,
you have to sign a contract.
When you divorce,
you gotta start splitting up assets and other fees (child support, alimony).

so you think you met the one,
ya’ll gonna live happily ever after,
and as soon as shit hits the fan…

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do you know the type of people i lowkey kind of admire?

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