black folks need a warning yet again.
this goes for every community tbh.
some of the gays can be EXTRA jealous and catty so this applies.
as you know,
many black folks come from the hoods of struggle.
we imagined the “good life” and strived to be there.
that seat at the table.
unfortunately,
many of us like to advertise our new worth on social media.

Gold chains
Designer clothes
Nice cars
Hanging with the haves

these things can raise our social stock within the communities.
the invites,
the follows,
the sex,
and the “in”.

a majority of us are a shallow and materialistic bunch tbh.
i’ve seen a lot of jealousy and envy in my own life to understand…

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this weekend,
one of my straight home wolves said an ignorant statement about gays.
he said:

“…in gay relationships,
you know there is the boy and the girl…”

i was like “what?” and he started to apologize profusely.
we have a mutual gay friend who gets offended about everything.
he thought i’d be the same.
i hit him with the…

“Dude,
it’s cool.
I don’t care but…”

…and then let him know its two males,
regardless of submission or dominance.
there is no “girl” because no one has a pussy and can get pregnant.
easy peasy.
i don’t want to be someone folks have to watch what they say around.
granted…

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sit lets have a talk.
one on one…
so you would be surprised who reads my site.
i have a ton of lurkers from all walks of life.
i have some industry lurkers who also check me out.
i feel this should go out to them,
especially after that kevin terry debacle that happened today.
this is for ANYONE already in the public eye,
pursuing a career in the public eye,
or simply have a lot to lose in life.
pay attention…
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