not everyone will like “us”.
it’s a hard pill to swallow,
but we aren’t for everyone.
it’s not even sexuality either.
we won’t be liked because of our:

skin tone
views
simply because we woke up in the morning

not everyone will like “the foxhole” either.
well i read this comment today and was truly disgusted.
it’s about christopher “killa cam” matthews.
“the vegan wolf”.
well one of the foxholers had an alleged run in with him.
well…
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FOXMAIL

hey Jamari,

I been lurking your blog for a while now. And I’m happy to be able to see other black gay men online that seem to be in to each other. Out here in Cali it’s so hard for a black man seeking another black men It seems like black men want nothing to do w/ each other out here (SF, Cali) and will look right past each other to chase down a white or Asian guy. I’m not judging anyone’s preference, but I believe there’s strong element of self-loathing when it comes to these brothas. I just finished my freshman year at SF State and it was a nightmare. I’m originally from the south and was looking to connect w/ other like-minded black gay men like myself but their heads are so far up any non-black man’s ass it’s pathetic. And what’s funny is I overhear conversations between these “brothas” and their friends about how white men won’t pay them any mind…they claim they’re being sexually discriminated against, but they’re doing the EXACT same thing to guys who share the same complexion and features as them. I dunno about other gay black men, but I LOVE other black men and find us incredibly sexy and charming. I’ve tried developing friendships w/ other black gays in SF/Castro area and they all look at me funny or roll their eyes when I try and engage them conversation. Even on a friendship tip, I’ve had these “brothas” tell me they prefer to “chill” w/ Asian or white guys in their inner circle. The self-hate among these men is so unnerving, it’s makes me utterly ashamed to be a black man out here. Because these men have absolutely no self-respect or pride in their own race. They will run up behind anything that looks lighter than them. Please tell me I’m not alone,
I feel like I’m all alone out here…

MY ANSWER…

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i got this on one of my favorite wolf’s instagram today.
isn’t that crazy?
well i guess the color struck negros of 2014 are in the wrong generation.
to think that this…
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