i’m all for black folks dating out.
gays/bi/tri especially.
don’t miss your bag waiting for the “black love” fantasy.
it may never happen.
some of these black males out here can be a real trip.
karamo from “queer eye” is married to a white male.
he has two black cubs as well.

well,
of course,
he has faced a ton of criticism because of this.
he addressed it in an interview with “hip hollywood“…

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i hate rush hour.
coming home for me is like being squeezed into a sardine can.
all that pushing and shoving just to get on the train…
ugh.
its like a fight to see who can get and stay on.
people don’t even give a fuck either.
they will squeeze themselves in a tight spot just to get in.
well tonight,
this someone squeezed himself in my tight spot and…
Continue reading “The Most Action I Had In Months” →

(i randomly wrote this today.
a vent maybe?)
i’m over it.
yeah.
i think i have finally seen the light about work wolf…
Continue reading “I Wrote This (Before)” →

i guess one of the perks of being gay is knowing pretty vixens.
like 98% of the vixens i know are gorgeous.
no full blown ratchets.
all trying to make something of themselves.
you are who you attract?
they are always #teamjamarifoxlife too.
the funny part is,
if i was straight,
i’m sure i would have dated them.
well today i went on a lunch date with one of the flyest…
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“hey lets talk a little later.
i got a lot going on.
i’ll holla.”
 
thats what i told work wolf in a text earlier.
he replied… Continue reading “How To Get Trapped By A Work Wolf” →

“you are sitting there.
shiny.
waiting.
you are the object of desire.
everyone wants to try for your attention.
funny thing is…
they don’t.
they would rather play the easy game than the challenge.
you make people want to step up.
get their shit together because they know…
you not like everyone else.
the only problem is…
​you are too much of a prize to really pursue.
how crazy is that?”

they say if you think you are a “prize”,
others will view you just the same.
does that really work in this life?
hell is it even working for the straights?
well i don’t know what to think about it anymore.
being the person that sits on the top shelf.
the one who pays their bills on time,
credit is exceptional,
everything is in their name,
and they are living that independent hustle.
realistically that all could be used against you when you are trying to date.
who woulda thunk?
check it…
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